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imstarting2moro

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A harsh reality

Hey guys, I am typing drunk right now but I need to get this off my chest. Tonight I went out with the guys and had a few drinks at a strip club, while waiting at the bar this chick turns around and is like " Hey bitch...then goes on to sing the song get out the way, get out the way". So I give her a what the fuck look. she goes back to her group then turns around and says "are you here to get Laid?" I say no, I am just here with my friends having a few drinks, and she says "good cause your not going to, but your friend will and your other friend will but you wont. So instead of bishing her out I just ignore her. Thats was that sinario.


Then we go to a second club after and they have whats called roll call, every girl comes up to the stage for one last dance. Well its only me and my two friends left in the club, so we go up to the stage. Well the girls come up but for lack of interest (or people) they walk off. well my two friends each get up close and personal dances from two different girls and I get shafted, no one came up to me and I was sitting up near the stage alone while my two friends are getting dances.

It is a harsh reality after tonight, I need to get things in check. Sorry for the drunk talking but inside it truly did bother me.
 
Hey imstarting2moro!
I'm not a guy so i may not be able to relate to you exactly...but i do want to share with you my thoughts on your situations last night.
First of all, that girl who sang you that cheesy lil song is extremely rude and immature. I dont know what she looked like but even if she was pretty, obviously a girl like that doesnt deserve any nice guys time of day. I bet she never even thought about herself and the chance that one day she may not look exactly how she wants to either (by gaining a few pounds, getting in an accident that could change her body, sickness...etc) Its not like you woke up one day and decided to gain weight..the fact is it could happen to anyone whether we like it or not. So i say....F' her! That girl is just some lil immature biotch that is probably very insecure with herself and gets a thrill out of saying things like that because she thinks she can get away with it. Thats just pointless, isnt it?
As for the second situation, much the same as the first girl, those girls are very immature and discriminatory i would say as well. Were they strippers? IMO, not all strippers but most seem to be pretty disgusting and dirty looking to me and i personally, even being a girl, would not want a stripper touching me or getting too close to me in the first place lmao.
Im sure last night was an eye opener for you, as most of us do go through something like that when finally making the FINAL decision to change our lifestyles for the better. But..with that being said, you still need to do this for you and you only and use those kinds of situations as well as the positive words you will get from coming to a forum like this or from the ppl who really care about you as your motivation.
So, as i said before, F' em and do this for you. :)
 
MicheeH said:
Hey imstarting2moro!
I'm not a guy so i may not be able to relate to you exactly...but i do want to share with you my thoughts on your situations last night.
First of all, that girl who sang you that cheesy lil song is extremely rude and immature. I dont know what she looked like but even if she was pretty, obviously a girl like that doesnt deserve any nice guys time of day. I bet she never even thought about herself and the chance that one day she may not look exactly how she wants to either (by gaining a few pounds, getting in an accident that could change her body, sickness...etc) Its not like you woke up one day and decided to gain weight..the fact is it could happen to anyone whether we like it or not. So i say....F' her! That girl is just some lil immature biotch that is probably very insecure with herself and gets a thrill out of saying things like that because she thinks she can get away with it. Thats just pointless, isnt it?
As for the second situation, much the same as the first girl, those girls are very immature and discriminatory i would say as well. Were they strippers? IMO, not all strippers but most seem to be pretty disgusting and dirty looking to me and i personally, even being a girl, would not want a stripper touching me or getting too close to me in the first place lmao.
Im sure last night was an eye opener for you, as most of us do go through something like that when finally making the FINAL decision to change our lifestyles for the better. But..with that being said, you still need to do this for you and you only and use those kinds of situations as well as the positive words you will get from coming to a forum like this or from the ppl who really care about you as your motivation.
So, as i said before, F' em and do this for you. :)
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Hi there, its the morning after and although thinking about the situation does bother me its not to bad, you are right on everything. I guess its just because i have been working hard for a month and I feel alot better about myself and then get brought back down to reality with some drunk dumb @ss girl. I do appreciate all the kind words though.
 
No problem! Don't let the little things bring you down. I checked out your diary (the most recent) and it looks like you know what you have to do in order to reach your goals. The hard part now is actually doing it...but i believe you can! Keep it up:)
 
8/5/09

Alright guys, just a little update. I have been doing pretty good up to this point, its been about a month and a half. My clothes are fitting a lot better and I am feeling pretty energetic compared to pre weight loss. i think I have lost about 15 pounds but am not sure. Well i am working and have a customer so i will hit you all back later. thanks.
 
Yay congrats on the 15 lbs!! I wish my weight loss was more than it has been since i started this whole thing lol. Anyways just checking up on you to see how your doing. Looking great so far! Keep it up:)
 
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