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Look before I get started I just wanted a place to vent and I think this place would be not the best place to vent, but a good enough place to vent. So before I begin I'm only doing this because I'm stressed out at everyone of my family and friends who think I'm weird for wanting to look good and be in shape and look trim and feel better about myself and if you could just bear with me I might insult some people hear so please know that I am not offending any of you people. Ok hear goes...........SHUT THE **** UP!!! all you ****ing losers so what I want to be in shape and live a healthy life style. Maybe I dont want to be manly and eat a mother ****ing cheeseburger maybe I perfer to eat healthy and live a good lifestyle free from stress and you know what stop trying to make me as misrable, underweight, overweight, obese, weak, and lifeless as you. I took tenchi kenpo karate because I wanted to learn to defend myself. I chose to lose weight because I felt that I should do something about it. I am Choosing to get six pack abs and have a well toned body to feel good about myself. Is it because Im ashamed of myself NO!! Is it because I'm arrogant NO!!! Its because I use to have no self confidence and was made fun of all my life and I am gonna make sure that never happens again. Before I started working I weighed 210ish or so and now I'm in the range of 148-150.5 (in the morning). I do not deprive myself at all I try not because I accedently became almost to light and was being very sick because of overtraining. So to some it all up I want to manage the weight I'm at and turn that into lean cut and well defined muscle like Van Damme or Bruce Lee or something. Also Ive been getting there slowly but surely its just I hate being knocked off of my diet and it pisses me off even more when other people say "oh come on drink some manly coca cola and white bread" I know I may sound crazy and what not, but ever since I dropped all that weight I felt like a whole new person that I could do anything I wanted to in the world. My mind became so clear, open, and understanding. It's gonna take some time to get the exact results I want and if the gods want me to wait I'll wait just like with my black belt in tenchi kenpo karate I'll wait. Im getting in shape slowly but surly and have seen cuts and muscles ive never seen before. I'm in know way at all trying to be like Arnold Shwarzenagger. I'm 4th Kyu in Tenchi kenpo and aim to stick with it and to all you Lazy ****s who think I'm a sissy and a weirdo for wanting to stay shape. **** YOU!!!

P.S. Yes, I know I have alot of anger issues but I'm a mother ****ing proud mother ****er more then I use to be and sgain I'm sry if I offened anyone
 
Hey, I commend you for keeping to your weight training, knowing the value of working out, and ESPECIALLY, for not letting anyone affect your decision to stay fit and IMPROVE yourself.

So, I got ur back. Good job.

Really though, I can understand your anger and your need to vent. I just hope you don't let ur anger consume you further.

Keep up the good work.
 
Ryofire, don't let other ppl get to you so bad.. live your life for you, do what makes you happy. simply tell ppl its your choice and thats it. its not their business and if you feel good that is what is important. be proud of who you are and what you have accomplished. i think you have decided to make some good choices- healthy lifestyle and exercise, there is nothing wrong with that. I wish you continued success at acheiving your goals, just keep at it and do what is right for you. Happy New Year mate, and cheer up ;)
 
i got your back too. i have gotten some of the same stuff since i started working out. the reason why i started is because i used to be a big whuss, and everyone used to pick on me for that reason. now on the other hand, its all different.

keep up the good work!
 
yea thats true I'm still trying to figure things out but so far the things I've been doing is working it's just ive been knocked of a few times thats all. If I can become a 4th kyu in tenchi kenpo and lose all that weight in the first place then maybe just maybe I can get the results I want. Also one of the black belts that I train with said that I might just be the next Van Damme at the rate I'm going. I love this site at least you guys understand me and where I'm coming from.

BTW do any of you guys know any stores where I can get those body fat clippers or body fat measurement things.
 
It's a good idea, Aevans. The only problem that I see is that unless you know how to properly use them, you'll get an inaccurate reading.

Ryofire, don't sweat it. Stick with your martial arts and strength training...that sounds pretty "manly" to me.

I think the distinctions of what constitues the definition masculine and feminine are pretty blurry. We no longer live in a society where the male is viewed as going off to the job while the woman sits back taking care of children, cooking, and cleaning.

Both the women's movement and the open entrance of women into universities ensured that we, as a nation, moved into new thinking that broke out of the traditional family roles...not that this is a bad thing.
 
It really doesn't matter what other people think as long as meeting your goals makes you feel healthy.

On that note, suck it up princess. And try to control yoself. Emotional outbursts are for little girls. :D
 
i'm in the same situation as you mate, its partly the reason why i joined this site, think about it this way, what are you going to look like in 3 yrs from now compared to the people who are mocking you? I have a feeling the tables will turn for you, just focus and keep working mate we're all here for you buddy
 
Your right I'm a 4th kyu in tenchi kenpo and I've seen cuts that I never ever thought that I would see. I know for sure that I can do it just gotta stick to it.

BTW I have gottin better results and better motivation thx to you guys. If I need help I'll get it from you guys. In fact my New Years Resolutions are "Stay focused on my goals" "Just Believe myself don't rely on others" and "When I need help I'll get it."
 
people can be idiots. keep up the good work. do what makes you happy like the others have said. i get that a lot too just because i try to eat right, people tend to throw silly comments at me, but i try not to let it bother me. in a way i think by us bettering ourselves shows we are stronger than they are and for some reason they don't like it. i've been thin all my life and my parents have and had major health issues. i found out that even with my small frame of 105 lbs. my cholestorol tends to be high due to genetics. well....when i try to eat right i get comments like..."what are you trying to lose weight" (sometimes in a nasty tone) and i'm like "NO! believe it or not i have elevated cholestorol levels and heart disease runs in my family so i'm trying to be a healthier person." Some people just don't understand. Do what is right for you and screw what other people think or say. If it's not positive comments then just walk away or ignore them. i understand completely what you are going through in a slightly different way. you're doing the right things!! ;)
 
Since we live in the society where less then 10% of the population (my guesstimate) do not care about what they put in their bodies and how much activity they are getting we pretty much have to learn to live with the comments people make.

I'm in the office all day and bring 3 meals with me which I eat during the day. People used to freak out and now they got used to it and don't come poking in my lunch to see what healthy (= weird) stuff I'm eating. But I still get comments like 'Relax, have a chocolate (biscuit, cake, doughnut, muffin or some other cr*p)' or 'Relax, don't go to the gym today, come for lunch with us to a greasy spoon caf' or ' Let's go and get trashed after work, don't worry about being hangover the next morning and not doing your morning run'. And guess what, it just makes me more determined! Especially when I see the effects of their diets and lifestyles.

Keep up your good work. Hopefully we'll outnumber them one day. ;)
 
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