Hi everyone, I'm a newbie here....Just a little backround info- I'm a 38 year old chap, living in Boston. Once upon a time I was very athletic, I'd swim, and in my college years in the mid 1990s, I was an avid runner- Id say a running addict, as i put in over 3 hours of running a day. I was bouncing off the walls with energy- and my weight was nonexistant. Given my 6'3 height and wide frame, my ideal healthy weight is about 195. I look best at 210, but when running, I dropped down to 175. Everyone told me I looked emaciated, as many runners tend to look. (no offense to any runners here).
BUT things have changed since the 1990s...
Flash ahead to 2006- After a winter came, i fell out the routine of running, and didnt get back into it- Every year i just put on more and more weight, a little at a time. Right now i weigh about 285 pounds. Im as big as a football line backer. I have a big butt and man-boobs. Its embarassing...I'm tired, sometimes my hips and knees are sore from the weight,. and my self esteem plummted.
The thing with being fat is there is a sense of isolation- I feel like noone can understand this ordeal- which is clearly foolish, but i cant get over that feeling its a problem im suffering alone.
I don't think Im fat becuse I'm depressed, rather, Im depressed because i'm fat. When I focus on things other than my body, I'm pretty chipper. But hell, I don't even date anymore- Its hard to meet other singles carrying confidence when I'm 100 pounds overweight....
Hopefully I can find others here going through the same thing I am dealing with, and draw inspiration from them...
Despite my weight, I'm still able to do vigorous exercise- I use a bicicle to get everywhere, and my legs have gotten very muscular-
The problem? I cant seem to drop below 280 [pounds! How the heck to I get back down to 200 pounds? The exercise that got me thin in college was running, but I have too much weight at this time to run, i might injure my hips or knees.....
Any other former atletes who packed on the pounds here?
Thanks everyone..
regards
Tarn Stephanos

BUT things have changed since the 1990s...
Flash ahead to 2006- After a winter came, i fell out the routine of running, and didnt get back into it- Every year i just put on more and more weight, a little at a time. Right now i weigh about 285 pounds. Im as big as a football line backer. I have a big butt and man-boobs. Its embarassing...I'm tired, sometimes my hips and knees are sore from the weight,. and my self esteem plummted.
The thing with being fat is there is a sense of isolation- I feel like noone can understand this ordeal- which is clearly foolish, but i cant get over that feeling its a problem im suffering alone.
I don't think Im fat becuse I'm depressed, rather, Im depressed because i'm fat. When I focus on things other than my body, I'm pretty chipper. But hell, I don't even date anymore- Its hard to meet other singles carrying confidence when I'm 100 pounds overweight....
Hopefully I can find others here going through the same thing I am dealing with, and draw inspiration from them...
Despite my weight, I'm still able to do vigorous exercise- I use a bicicle to get everywhere, and my legs have gotten very muscular-
The problem? I cant seem to drop below 280 [pounds! How the heck to I get back down to 200 pounds? The exercise that got me thin in college was running, but I have too much weight at this time to run, i might injure my hips or knees.....
Any other former atletes who packed on the pounds here?
Thanks everyone..
regards
Tarn Stephanos