I need help! PLEASE!!!!

I don't understand weight lifting. I know how to lift but don't understand why my body isn't responding. I have been doing the firm aerobic workout with weights for 2.5 years but just started lifting at the gym. Here are my figures:

Squats on a slider: 95-105 lbs, 14-16 reps
Leg press: 80 pounds on each leg 14-15 reps
leg extention: 23 pounds each leg 8-10 reps
hamstring maching: 30 pounds 16 reps

I go until I can't anymore and go every twice a week but am not seeing results, nor am I sore the next day, even though I go until I can't squat another rep. I know women who squat more than I do. Plus, on the days I don't use weights, I feel incomplete. I feel I need to squat everyday to feel a good contraction but I want to gain muscle, not just tone it. Same with upper body. How do I compare with my weights and most women at age 20-21? I feel like a pathetic wimp. I am 10% body fat and would like to gain more muscle to look bigger.

Do I need to go for the "burning sensation" inside the muscle, go until I can't do another rep (where I don't get the burn?), or, do I just need to do the recommended 3 sets of 16 to get bigger and stronger muscles. Although I have a lot of muscle, I'm very weak. My upper body really is unproportional to my lower body because I was working my lower body really hard during the firm videos so I want to start lifting weights. Another problem is, my biceps, triceps, and forearm don't allow me to get the burn in my back and by the time I go to work my biceps and triceps, they are exausted from other exercises but still won't get any bigger.
If I don't do my firm videos I feel incomplete but I always have to add extra reps to the exercises they do and pause the video to get the burn. I am just so confused on what I should do. I need a good program for lifting.

Sorry for the long story but I just need help!!! Please read the whole thing and HELP ME!!!
 
Hi there,
I did firm videos for quite a while too and I found that they are crap. I got no results. Then I started doing splits and lifting heavy. All the results I could ever want. I'm a bit confused about your specific goals. It sounds like maybe you want to build muscle in your upper body and just maintain in your lower body? To build muscle you should use a heavy weight that will take you to failure in 4-6 reps. For maintenence I would use a weight that takes you to failure in 10-15 reps. I recommend doing splits and only working each muscle gorup once a week. You may be over trained and that may be why your body is not responding well. Less really is more!
Here is a smaple split:
Day one: legs
Day two: back and abs
Day three: shoulders and biceps
Day four: chest and triceps

Make sure every muscle group gets a week of rest. Do 3-4 exercises per body part, 2-4 sets of each, depending on how your body feels.

Good luck and if you have questions about what I have said please let me know!

Sarah :)
 
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