I didn't realize

slfrighteous1

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For the past month or so, my daughter's friends have been making comments about her "fat mom". I blew it off. Then, I saw a woman at the pool this weekend, who I *thought* had the same build. I asked my husband whether I should get the same swimsuit style. He looked at me and said "um, hon, you're bigger than she is". I love the man, and he thinks I'm beautiful, but darn it, I want to be thinner!

I cried, left the pool feeling like I shouldn't be seen in public, and came home determined to do something about it.

I would drink a 12 pack a day of soda, and eat junk food with my 150 pound husband every night. We eat healthful meals, but I was eating two plates full, and shoveling it in, almost in a panic about not getting enough to eat.

That was Sunday. For two days, I've done really well, and I have a feeling this time I'm going to do it! I know I'll have days when I need other people to support me, so I searched and found this group. I look forward to reading everyone's success, and posting my own.

Jan
 
Hello :) I am new too. I remember the first time i asked my boyfriend if I was about the same size as another woman that I considered frankly very fat and he said no, I was bigger :(. That hurt. I am rubbish at dieting but I figure that I can only try... maybe we could try together?
 
welcome to the site... glad you found your way in the door and much success getting to where you want to be :)

do start a diary, its agreat place to get support, for us to learn more about you, and to record your challenges and many victories :D
 
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