If you are with the right person - they will convince you that you are the hottest thing on two legs at your heaviest - and that you still are at your lightest - even with a ton of loose skin like I have.
My husband is wonderful - and the fact that his BMI is in the 50s could never alter that.
You are SO right, Margaret! You have a real gem in Rod - and he in you. My beloved also has never commented on my weight, be it up or down. Mind you, I certainly know when I feel better about myself, and that's what's important to me.
Cheers
ABBA