Here I am......again

Hi ski bunny, i read your thread the other day but had some concerns and didn't want to post a critical comment to undermine your efforts so i didn't post.


However without remembering the contents i've opened up your thread again and realised it is you. I want to say good on you and keep going and all that stuff but i wonder if the reason for your past failures is because you are making it harder than necessary for yoruself by your choices of some foods and maybe not eating enough.


firstly the frosties. Are you a person who doesn't like breakfast. Aren't frosties sugary lightweight cereal with no goodness in them. If they are isnt' this just like eating a bag of sweets for breakfast. There's really nothing in frosties to keep you going. Perhaps the milk you have with them is good for nutrition.


Wouldn't it be better to eat a more nutritious and more substantial breakfast. I won't make suggestions at this point as you may not like certain things.


have you ever looked at the amount of calories you can eat to maintain your current weight. Whatever it is, if you can try to tailor your food intake so that its only a bit less than what you need to maintain your weight doing no exercise. In this way you can enjoy your food, not suffer constant hunger pangs and as your weight loss would be gradual, you are more likely to keep it off.


Earlier this year i read a long article which was about studies on weight loss and why people always put it back on (you are not the only failure. we've all failed a lot - I have a 20kg cycle). They suggested that once people lose 10% of their body weight, the body rebels and all hte hormones kick into gear to make you pile it back on again. Its happened to me in this past year. I was 55kg and now i'm 77g again in a matter of 8 months, most of it in the last few months when i got depressed.


So now my strategy is to lose weight at a more moderate pace and to stop and stabilise at various stages along the way. Patience really matters. Also if you hink you may need more vitamins and minerals then consider taking a multivitamin. I started doing this a few weeks ago and i don't know if its due to the vitamins but i am feeling really good now and more committed to my diet than when i even started my food log just a week ago.


So i hope you don't take this as negative and critical but constructive and worth a thought. The article i read i posted on here in "on topics" some time back. If you search for it, you might find it.
 
A[quote name="fortyfour" url="/t/54752/here-i-am-again/20#post_830993"] Hi ski bunny, i read your thread the other day but had some concerns and didn't want to post a critical comment to undermine your efforts so i didn't post. However without remembering the contents i've opened up your thread again and realised it is you. I want to say good on you and keep going and all that stuff but i wonder if the reason for your past failures is because you are making it harder than necessary for yoruself by your choices of some foods and maybe not eating enough. firstly the frosties. Are you a person who doesn't like breakfast. Aren't frosties sugary lightweight cereal with no goodness in them. If they are isnt' this just like eating a bag of sweets for breakfast. There's really nothing in frosties to keep you going. Perhaps the milk you have with them is good for nutrition. Wouldn't it be better to eat a more nutritious and more substantial breakfast. I won't make suggestions at this point as you may not like certain things. have you ever looked at the amount of calories you can eat to maintain your current weight. Whatever it is, if you can try to tailor your food intake so that its only a bit less than what you need to maintain your weight doing no exercise. In this way you can enjoy your food, not suffer constant hunger pangs and as your weight loss would be gradual, you are more likely to keep it off. Earlier this year i read a long article which was about studies on weight loss and why people always put it back on (you are not the only failure. we've all failed a lot - I have a 20kg cycle). They suggested that once people lose 10% of their body weight, the body rebels and all hte hormones kick into gear to make you pile it back on again. Its happened to me in this past year. I was 55kg and now i'm 77g again in a matter of 8 months, most of it in the last few months when i got depressed. So now my strategy is to lose weight at a more moderate pace and to stop and stabilise at various stages along the way. Patience really matters. Also if you hink you may need more vitamins and minerals then consider taking a multivitamin. I started doing this a few weeks ago and i don't know if its due to the vitamins but i am feeling really good now and more committed to my diet than when i even started my food log just a week ago. So i hope you don't take this as negative and critical but constructive and worth a thought. The article i read i posted on here in "on topics" some time back. If you search for it, you might find it. [/quote]

Hi thanks for reading my diary and leaving a comment. Of course I don't take it negatively that's why I'm here because ur right i've lost weight put it back on etc etc so any help/advice is welcome.

I do know what u mean about breakfast. I don't like cereal and have my frosties dry cos I don't like milk. It's mainly because I don't wake up early enough to eat breakfast at home so I eat it when I get to work. I'm gonna try fruit compote with natural yogurt and granola. I'm trying not to eat a lot of bread...I love it but it bloats me.

Please keep an eye on my diary, I may make a few changes and like I say advice and suggestions r welcome :beer::)

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A[quote name="Irishprincess" url="/t/54752/here-i-am-again#post_830979"] Your doing great lovely, dont be worring that you had a little mini binge, i did the same last night...ooooooops. KEEP TRYING AND U WILL SUCCEED. xxxxxxxxx[/quote]

Thanks Irish :) I had a terrible day yesterday but lost 6lbs anyway yey xx

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AYeah so yesterday was a bit of a bummer. I had a breakfast roll then ate some biscuits and throughout the course of the day ate 3bags of crisps then went out for drinks drank far tooo much never ate dinner and today I feel rough as hell lol so I expect I will spend today feeding my hangover but it was good at the time :)
 
Hi thanks for reading my diary and leaving a comment. Of course I don't take it negatively that's why I'm here because ur right i've lost weight put it back on etc etc so any help/advice is welcome.

I do know what u mean about breakfast. I don't like cereal and have my frosties dry cos I don't like milk. It's mainly because I don't wake up early enough to eat breakfast at home so I eat it when I get to work. I'm gonna try fruit compote with natural yogurt and granola. I'm trying not to eat a lot of bread...I love it but it bloats me.

Please keep an eye on my diary, I may make a few changes and like I say advice and suggestions r welcome :beer:
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Well why not have a salad sandwich or something else substantial. On the other if you find bread bloats you, do you mean you get gas? and stomach pain? Are you sure its the bread? But lets say it is, you can get tested if you have a gluten intolerance. Frankly i wouldn't wish that on anyone since life without wheat sounds utterly miserable if you ask me. But rice is a good alternative.


If you are ok about cooking, you can learn to different sorts of foods altogether, you don't have to stick with the american way. Take something you cooked at home that you can heat up in the microwave. When i was in india, i got easily used to eating what they ate for breakfast which was a mild chickpea curry and chapati but rice would work too.


A big bowl of fresh fruit salad would make a great breakfast. And if you like yoghurt, then add some of that. Particularly if its the plain variety. Make sure it hasn't got added cream or sugar as a lot do.


Stewed fruit with yoghurt is also good.


What do you call a lot of bread anyway. I mean how much can you eat without suffering. Two slices a day is too much? If not then a salad sandwhich is a good meal at any time of day so long as it isn't slathered in butter or cheap mayonnaise or other high fat things. If you have to add something to give it a kick, a bit of dijon mustard can be nice, or a slice of cheese.


Or maybe there are some types of dry biscuit that don't have wheat in them and which you can make a savoury sandwich. eg tomato, avocado, bit of alafalfa sprouts on that biscuit. Other times you could include a bit of cheese or smoked salmon which is rich in good oils.


I also like baked beans and they are good for you. Eat them with or without bread.


I think the fact that you've slipped up a bit recently could be because you are letting yourself get too hungry. I try to keep my meals about 3-4 hours apart when i am restricting food intake. and then in the evening, i find i am not so hungry. Between times i may only need a piece of fruit but if i get more hungry, i try to make sure its something that wont' lead to a binge, even if it means eating another substantial meal like a sandwich. Anything to avoid binging.


Oh also i like granola but its a quite high in calories with so much added honey and oil usually. The thing is when something is high in calories from fat and sugar it means you may be left with an empty stomach and wanting more so that's why i try to keep my choices low calorie as much as possible. that way i can eat more bulk and feel fuller and satisfied for longer.


Well that's my ideas for today. You don't have to take them on i just thought i'd give you some more ideas.
 
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