Bazooka1
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275. Heck, I managed to hit 280 last year after a cruise. This is ridiculous. I remember when I was 12 and couldn't believe hitting 160. Now look at me. I'm not disgusting but I've got a pretty good belly and some man-boobs goin' on.
But I'm married, why should I feel like I need to get in shape? Maybe it's an egotistical reason, but I want to impress people...mostly my family and close friends.
You know how you'll tell someone that you're trying to lose weight and that you've been excercising, and they'll tell you "You look great!". You couldn't bear to tell them you've actually gained 5 pounds since you saw them last, but you quietly accept their kind lie. My wife's family is like that. They give compliments like they're a dime-a-dozen. My family is the opposite. I can't remember the last time they complimented me for anything. I don't hold that against them because that's just how we are as a family, but it makes earning a compliment from them all that more meaningful.
So here is my goal, to gain compliments from my and my wife's families and those that know me as I look now....without them knowing that I've changed my lifestyle. Last night I told my wife that my year-end goal is 220 but we aren't to let anyone know that I'm trying to lose weight. I have 8 months to reach my weight goal. Here goes.
But I'm married, why should I feel like I need to get in shape? Maybe it's an egotistical reason, but I want to impress people...mostly my family and close friends.
You know how you'll tell someone that you're trying to lose weight and that you've been excercising, and they'll tell you "You look great!". You couldn't bear to tell them you've actually gained 5 pounds since you saw them last, but you quietly accept their kind lie. My wife's family is like that. They give compliments like they're a dime-a-dozen. My family is the opposite. I can't remember the last time they complimented me for anything. I don't hold that against them because that's just how we are as a family, but it makes earning a compliment from them all that more meaningful.
So here is my goal, to gain compliments from my and my wife's families and those that know me as I look now....without them knowing that I've changed my lifestyle. Last night I told my wife that my year-end goal is 220 but we aren't to let anyone know that I'm trying to lose weight. I have 8 months to reach my weight goal. Here goes.