1st off i would like to say hi to everybody as i am new to this site, and this is my 1st post here on this site. i don't know if i am posting this in the right category sorry if i am rong. well a little back round info so you can help me better answer my question, i am 20 years of age & i am either 5'5 or 5'6 and my current weight is im guessing between 300-350lbs. so i am looking to loose weight and get down to my weight group for my age and hight, but im also not tryin 2 look like a pinky finger as some people like 2 call it, i am wanting to also look defined(not perfect 6 pack abs, no) so what is the best way to loose weight fast in a healthy manner & get to were i want to be and be able to keep it off? and also how do i do this? can u generalize it for me. thanks in advance