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Hey everyone,
I've browsed this forum a little bit, and it looks fabulous - people seem so lovely and supportive! And it's so nice to talk to people who are in the same situation as you! (Especially as a student, where the skinniest girls bitch about being "fat" as a form of fishing for compliments, GRR that annoys me!)
Anyway, I think this looks like a lovely forum, I'm really hopeful about joining.
Cheers,
Meg.
 
Welcome to the community. :)

Make yourself a home, start a journal, read the stickies, and have fun.
 
oh my gosh i know what you mean!!! i just graduated from highschool last friday... and highschool "skinny" girls kill me when they call themselves fat just for the attention... sometimes i wish some of the would put on about 50 pounds soo they could empathize with the true meaning of being fat! ... lol!

soo what are your goals may i ask?!? mine is to drop some pounds this summer before college... ive gone to the extremes of telling my friends i will be out of state all summer soo i can truly have a major affect on them when they see me again in the fall... lol!

good luck!!!
 
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<3phobic<3 said:
oh my gosh i know what you mean!!! i just graduated from highschool last friday... and highschool "skinny" girls kill me when they call themselves fat just for the attention... sometimes i wish some of the would put on about 50 pounds soo they could empathize with the true meaning of being fat! ... lol!

soo what are your goals may i ask?!? mine is to drop some pounds this summer before college... ive gone to the extremes of telling my friends i will be out of state all summer soo i can truly have a major affect on them when they see me again in the fall... lol!

good luck!!!
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Yay, it's so lovely to hear someone agree with me! Yes, as sadistic and mean as it might be, I'd kinda like some of them to put on some weight just for a day or so, just to know what it feels like....
Wow, that's awesome, your friends are going to be so surprised when they see you! Good luck!
It's just getting into winter here, so I'm the opposite of you - I want to be comfortable in a swimsuit by summer...although that's rather ambitious I suspect...fortunately I have several months. Generally speaking though I'm looking to lose about 15-20 kg, as quickly as I can do it while still enjoying nice food (it's my one indulgence) and eating healthily!
 
i have a bit of a problem with over-indulging... i will eat as healthily as possible all day long and then at night i will binge on processed foods like sugary cereals or like last night vanilla creme wafers... but i have LEARNED the lesson that it wont feel good in the morning... the morning after i over-indulge i wake up feeling awful and bloated... and today i decided enough is enough and i dont like waking up and feeling like that... lol!

i would like to see 30 pounds by the time i start back at school... and i am still hopeful... but i will really HAVE to work on changing all the bad eating habits i have and replacing them with new ones (good ones)... lol...

but i have heard time and time again... that it only takes 21 days to create a new habit... like exercise... right now it is really crucial for me to make sure i do it everyday soo that it will become a habit and i wont think twice about it anymore...

wow.... didnt mean to write an essay... lol!!!
 
Hi Meg!

Welcome to the forum, ur right it is really good here!

I saw your post n had to answer 'cos OMG skinny "I'm fat" complement seekers drive me insane too! I have a friend who says it all the time, she knows she looks great! I wish I could say it without the risk of people agreeing with me! Right that's my new goal!

Hope you're doing very well

x take care x
 
i have a friend who is similar, doesnt claim shes fat but she tells bullocks like 'i cant gain weight no matter how much i try!' even though she clearly doesnt eat enough to keep a mouse alive :)
 
Wishes, that's as frustrating I think! People who are skinny should just not complain about their weight - all it serves to do is make the rest of us feel worth about ourselves! (At lest, that's what I do.)

PinkFluff, that sounds like a good goal, as long as ya don't become one of the skinny people who bitch about their weight :p

Phobic, yeah that's why I think it's better to find small, manageable things to do, that don't seem like a big deal - you're more likely to be able to keep them up! At least, for me, I don't think I'd last very long on only eating lettuce for the rest of my life :p haha
 
Hello QueenOfBlasphem and welcome to the forum
I don't have many friends who talk about their weight. I'm too this or I'm too that.
It does get annoying though when they constantly talk about it.
 
hah... the only time i ever mention my insecurities about my weight are in this forum... i try to seem as confident as possible with others in day to day life... i guess my motto is something like "fake it till you make it" or something along those lines... fake my confidence until i actually truly am confident!
 
I'm exactly the same, <3phobic<3
I think it's partially that I'm afraid people will agree, partially that people will agree but pretend they don't to be nice about it, and partially just not to draw attention to it!
 
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