lol It sounds like you're both able to make it fun. That's great!
I am in a similar situation. My boyfriend and I have a membership together, which we are trying to use on a regular basis now. We've had our membership since October, but I honestly have only used it a couple times since then. I think it's going to help us both by having our partners to help motivate us and visa versa.
I am intimidated by weight lifting and I haven't touched weights since my senior year in high school. Last night when we went, I had my boyfriend re-introduce me to the machines. I'm hoping to gain muscle too! They're neat to workout on! I love cardio, but it's going to take me a while to build my endurance again. It's hard to believe I used to be a cross country runner. lol
How long do you work out each day?