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jamieJ

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Since January 1 I have been on a lifestyle reboot (or whatever you may choose to call it. I am in my 60's, 6 feet tall and was 277 pounds. As of today I am 255, although my scale seems to go all over the place on any given day. It may show 255 or 258 or 252. I can see a difference in the mirror and have, for now, stopped using the scale so much. I use clothes as a guide, but still am drawn to the scale even though I know it is probably inaccurate. Maybe it is too much of a habit to lose.

I created spreadsheets and take my blood pressure (3 times daily), measure and list everything I eat or drink, and record my exercise. I started walking and now slow jog 5-6 miles daily- routes with many hills. I also use a rowing machine and do free weights three times a week. I wish I could do abdominal exercises but not yet. Until age 52 I was fit: weighed 172 for years, ran 8 miles daily and worked out regularly. I gained weight and did not seem to care.

Blood pressure now is great - usually around 111-121/ 63-75. Clothes are starting to fit, even the ones that used to mock me (but there are plenty that still mock me). My problem is that I feel as if I have hit a wall. I cannot use the scale for relief because it moves around so much, and I don't understand why I seem to be stuck. My diet is balanced, plenty of vegetables and protein but I also do not deny myself anything; I just have a tiny portion of whatever I crave.

I found the site, and maybe this is a good fit to my routine. Maybe not. I am most afraid that feeling stymied will loss me my motivation. I hoped to weigh 228 by December 2018 (no idea why I chose 228 other than it seemed doable) but I am frightened of becoming depressed about losing steam. Feel free to comment, and in the spirit of good colloquy, I appreciate your reading and comments even if I may disagree or be doubtful.
 
Hi, Jamie & welcome to the forum. It sounds to me like you are doing all of the right things. Congratulations on getting your BP down to such a healthy level. Plateaus are normal. Stay off the scales for a couple of weeks & don't worry about it. Measuring yourself is a better guide, especially around your waist. You won't find arguments here as people are supportive & helpful. You will get to your goal weight. You know how to go about it & you are doing very well, so I don't see why you wouldn't. Why would you give up?
 
Welcome aboard. You and I have many similarities though I've never been as light as you were much of your life. We have spreadsheets, blood pressure, rowing, cardio, age, max weight, height and Jan 1 start dates pretty much in common as well as similar amounts lost in the past 2 months. I have a bit of a head start from last year so am starting from a lower number.

I've not posted a url here before but the guy in the video at this link has a sensible approach to the scale. There is a 2nd video as well.


There is a part 2 to the video and I'll add that scales need to be placed on a solid resilient surface and all feet need to be firmly in contact with the floor. I have a cheap ($40 CDN) body composition scale that is surprisingly accurate when compared with high end fitness center scales. The body comp features allow you to guage relative progress as little can be claimed about their absolute accuracy. This stuff is made for spreadsheets.
 
Thank you for the supportive words. My wife has suggested tossing the scale and just measuring my waist, so I will bow to both of your suggestions. I just get....worried or concerned or even freaked out a bit that the effort will ultimately fail. I know that there will be plateaus and that I need to change things up to keep the body mechanism off-guard. But in some ways I've made this effort THE ONE, which is the absolutely wrong thing to do. So I freak myself out. Jeez! lol
 
I freak myself out all the time, so I'm speaking from experience! You can do it. We just have to have more faith in ourselves :)
 
you only fail if you give up, we all have times when we worry about no making it or putting the weight back on.
 
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