Ok, so I just read Harold's comments in VJ's journal. I'm a little frustrated, but I'm going to try to explain this in a way that you guys might get it.
This site has hundreds of new registrations per day. It has over 100 spam posts on an average weekday. If you guys saw the amount of spam we remove, you'd be shocked. Seriously.
Now, someone might get upset because we remove links to charitable volunteer sites. That's not right, you say. This is for charity, you say. This is a "good deed" - why are you punishing that.
Ok. Sure. So I allow VJ to post links to his site. Then I have to allow EVERYONE else to post links to their charity of choice. And it doesn't matter whether it's a charity that someone else might have a moral objection to - if one person gets to post, the so should everyone, right? So if someone wants to post soliciting funds for PETA and someone else wants to post soliciting funds for a non-profit charity to help parolled sex-criminals and someone else wants to post soliciting funds for anti-abortion clinics, and someone else wants to post soliciting funds for pro-choice rallies ... we have to allow ALL OF THEM.
And then ... then the mods get to clean up that mess in addition to everything else.
And if charities are allowed, then why not allow people to solicit funds for for-profit organizations that they aren't affiliated with? I mean if the money isn't going to them, why not allow them to post that?
And then, well why not just allow people to post any link and let the members decide?
Where does it stop? It doesn't.
The only FAIR way to do this is to say no commercially based links. No solicitations. No charities. No volunteers. No links to your homepage that has ads on it. No links to your brother's business. No links to anything that isn't a VALID resource for weight loss that isn't a direct solicitation to buy some product.
It's the only fair thing.
And yes, you can say that all the moderators are Grinches. You can call us selfish and rude and say that "no good deed goes unpunished" when we remove a link for a charity. You can bitch and moan and whine about it all you want.
But until you walk a mile in our shoes and clean up the volumes of spam that we clean up every day, perhaps instead you'd like to say to all of us: Thank you guys for helping keep this board clean and readable and not overrun with spam and ads and porn and all the other stuff that you remove on a daily basis. Thanks for giving us a place to come discuss things and not be slapped in the face with ads and sales pitches. Thanks for volunteering your time and effort. We appreciate it.
Or don't.
Whatever. This thread is now closed. The rules have been explained. If you have a question or you think one of the Mods is acting in an unfair or an unfavorable or a biased manner, PM AllCdnBoy - that's Sean and he is the Admin of the board. What he says goes.