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Ok, call me emo if you want but lately I have been feeling pretty messed up and emotional. I have been listening to the Death Cab For Cutie stuff, The Postal Service etc.

I have alot of things going on right now...being a Senior in High School and all that and all of my friends are getting into relationships with other people (mostly in our circle of friends).

I want a relationship VERY bad with a girl that is currently dating someone else, it was a group effort to get them together because this guy is pretty shy. My best friend has just gotten into a very good relationship and everyone else in the group is in one as well.

To make matters worse, a while ago, when I was interested in somone else, I told this girl about me being into someone else. So, she still thinks I like this other person, which as a friend yes but anything more no.

I REALLY REALLY want to tell this girl that I have feelings for her but I am afraid she'll not want to be my friend anymore because she thinks I am a "player" and she is currently dating someone. This girl is a very good friend of mine in the first place and I don't want to lose a friend at all.

I feel like I am about to explode...this thing and then college and then not seeing my friends anymore when college starts, how I am going to get through college etc.

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Try some "Bling...Bling...."! :p

You like cold weather? You could always move to Alaska...

Seriously, you need to talk to someone other than a forum for more serious issues. I'd talk to a counselor who deals with depression, not that you have it now but if you let it build too long you could wind up that way. Do you believe in God? If so, then talk with a Christain counselor also. If you do not believe in God then that right there could be a problem and triggers all the rest of your "issues". Anyway, you need to discover what's really important in life. BTW, your time will come to meet a lady. Possible in college! You never know. If you like someone tell them! All they could do is say "no thanks". Then you can MOVE ON. Why waste time wondering and beating yourself up?
 
Hey I listen to the postal service?!?! lol.. anways, relationships are good, but don't try & find someone to be in one with.. Especially right before college; college is a test for every couple, and the majority don't make it. Always be open for a relationship, but don't go looking. And btw, you'll make hundreds of friends in college, hundreds. 3 people from my high school went to my college, and I was a little worried. But let me tell you, there is NOTHING to worry about..
 
ijt said:
Ok, call me emo if you want but lately I have been feeling pretty messed up and emotional. I have been listening to the Death Cab For Cutie stuff, The Postal Service etc.

I have alot of things going on right now...being a Senior in High School and all that and all of my friends are getting into relationships with other people (mostly in our circle of friends).

I want a relationship VERY bad with a girl that is currently dating someone else, it was a group effort to get them together because this guy is pretty shy. My best friend has just gotten into a very good relationship and everyone else in the group is in one as well.

To make matters worse, a while ago, when I was interested in somone else, I told this girl about me being into someone else. So, she still thinks I like this other person, which as a friend yes but anything more no.

I REALLY REALLY want to tell this girl that I have feelings for her but I am afraid she'll not want to be my friend anymore because she thinks I am a "player" and she is currently dating someone. This girl is a very good friend of mine in the first place and I don't want to lose a friend at all.

I feel like I am about to explode...this thing and then college and then not seeing my friends anymore when college starts, how I am going to get through college etc.

:(
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Boo hoo, emo...are you gonna lock yourself in your room and cry as you put on mascara and take pictures of yourself for your Myspace?

LOL, nah...

Reading your post, you sound like you're confusing everything with yourself. Is it acceptance or fitting in that you want, or is it an actual person you want to share your life with? Sounds to me like your main motivation is because everyone else is doing it...

Look, you're gonna have plenty of time and opprotunity to hook it up in college. If you don't wanna jeopardize your relationship with your firend, then don't. But if you still want to, reassess why it is you want to. Is it worth it? What is it you want in the relationship, anyway? These are the kinds of questions you should be asking.

I'm a senior, too. Look man, this is high school. Have fun while you can...don't spend it chasing after fruitless pursuits.
 
Hmm, good advice, same thing my parents have told me a million times...

Well, really that was good advice thanks for sharing it.

Man, it will suck when we all leave for college though :(

Life goes on I guess. After all, everyone goes through this.
 
Sebani said:
HEY!! ;) lol try talking to her. it might help
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Just about anything? Or saying that I am interested in her?

She's a good friend though, we have and do hang out alot.
 
If i was you I would ask for a word with her, and have her bloke there. say to her that your so very much in lve with her and you want to be with her.

This way, you have been honest and you did it so that no one got hurt and no one thort anything was happening cos you didnt want anyone to get hurt.

thats the only way you can tell her and still be the good guy. Also when the guy starts punching you she'll be pi55ed at him and you'll get the girl
 
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