Did your weight loss make you a better lover?

i think it would yes, being physically fit inthe bedroom more energy and confidence.


oh yeh baby do it!:coolgleamA:
 
I think most people that struggle with weight & insecurities coming from weight issues have some sort of issues being intimate.. I know its true for myself. I hope this is something that is only tempoary.
 
I've got serious issues. I was more confident with myself before I lost weight...this new body is still foreign to me. And the saggy skin is a confidence killer. Maybe it's just me...but so far my self-confidence has taken a MAJOR nosedive.
 
I would say it depends on the person....

Weight wise, three years ago, I was a string bean (I didn't have confidence than) and even though I have a heavier weight now, I have worked on myself (and still am) I feel much better about myself now than I did than, and I still am NOT comfortable with being intimate with someone else.

If you're talking about going longer, and wanting it more, I guess so.

BUT just because someone were to lose weight (yes, it helps build confidence) But it doesn't just miraculously change who you feel you are inside. That needs to be worked on too, as I am sure you are well aware of.
 
My boyfriend told me that as a weight loss gift, we could have more sex when I reached my goal weight.

He was kidding.

I think.

He better not be holding out me! :p
 
It didn't change anything for me, but I know that if my husband would get off his arse and lose weight as well, things would change drastically. At the moment, most things are just not possible due to his weight and size. *shrug* Shame really, he's missing out on sooooo much.....:reddevil:
 
Eddie_C said:
It really depends on their relationship...
It would work in mine.
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If my husband would say that to me, I'd rip his balls off, stuff them down his throat and then get a divorce. As simple as that. Even IF he thought it was a joke.
 
Eddie_C said:
It really depends on their relationship...
It would work in mine.
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Thanks. We actually tease and laugh a lot in this relationship, so I know he really meant it as something funny.

He wants the best for me and he is the person that most supports me -- he's constantly reminding me of the better choices I can make and buys me work out clothes and things like that.

I think it's hard to get some of that through the written word, though.

If he was a jerk about it, I would have broken up with him a long time ago.
 
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