Dear reflection

Pineapple1

Pineapple1

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Dear reflection,

I feel like you have caused me so much stress and heartache.
Whyyyyyyyy can't you just meet my expectations?
I guess I realize now that you need to be taken care of, not damaged and fed toxic diet pills and be starved.

This is my written promise to work hard to lose my last 15lbs in a healthy manner.

The gym is literally a 4 minute walk from my house; today I will make use of it..
 
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Don't beat yourself up. The past is just that. You have done a great job and should be extremely proud of yourself. We've all let ourselves go a little or a lot at different points in our lives for different reasons or no reason at all. But it doesn't matter, all that matters is that you've made a step to change your life...and I must say you've done a darn good job!

I'm proud of you and I don't doubt for a minute that you're going to meet your goal! So keep your head up and keep on trucking!
 
i can't sleep, i'm super frustrated.

i've been getting alot (three today) of comments such as "you look great, cant wait til you lose the rest" as if i'm some huge giant monster.
granted, i do work in media, but i'm sick of the pressure.

why is it that when you're finally a bit happy with yourself other people beat you down?
 
Pineapple said:
i can't sleep, i'm super frustrated.

i've been getting alot (three today) of comments such as "you look great, cant wait til you lose the rest" as if i'm some huge giant monster.
granted, i do work in media, but i'm sick of the pressure.

why is it that when you're finally a bit happy with yourself other people beat you down?
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Hey girl! I'm sorry that you feel down. Maybe they didn't mean it the way you took it. They obviously can see the difference and were maybe trying to be supportive because they know you want to loose more. I don't know, I wasn't there so I don't know the context or tone in which it was stated. But nevertheless, keep your head up and keep at it!
 
why is it that when you're finally a bit happy with yourself other people beat you down?
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Some people go out and DO something to make themselves feel better about themselves, and others (the idiots) can only do it by making others feel like crap. Ignore them, they are not important; YOU ARE!
 
Pineapple, AWESOME workout!!!! 2 hours at the gym is way awesome, even though you probably don't need to go that long lol. Keep up the great work, you will get to your goal in no time :)
 
I've been to the gym every day since I logged on here, but yesterday I had a really really rough break up.
It's been hard not reaching for comforting ice cream, but I haven't. Not yet.
 
I'm sorry you're going through a rough time:( Be strong, try to find something else to comfort you besides food...
 
It's been a really hard last little while, all things considered.
Break up, weight-loss mood swings, school, new job.
I havent broken my diet plan but am starting to feel it's not worth it.

My (ex)boyfriend said I had no confidence. I'm starting to find it in me, especially as people are making comments.
But if me losing weight has been the necessity to find my self-esteem, which is the only thing that will work to save my relationship, I feel superficial.

It's just so much deeper than that.

And on top of this, I'm performing at a massive party I need to write music for in three weeks.

I'm a ball of confusion
 
I'm so sorry that you are going through a rough time. I know it's hard, but in time you'll realize that you're better off without him...especially if he runs you down. Keep your head up! And I hope given a little more time you'll see the great person inside of you that I see.

Best of luck at your show...knock 'em dead! :)
 
Come play with us in the halloween challenge.. it'll lift your spirits.. spirits - ghosts halloween- get it? oh i just crack myself up.. :D

Seriously though pineapple... you want a fella to love you for who you are.. and accept you - flaws and all - no one is perfect.. (well i am sort of but shhhhh)
 
Hang in there! I can feel your frustration! This is for YOU not THEM! YOU are worth it! Have a great day! :)
 
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