confused and helpless

leezay

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hey evry1 i finally found da site for motivation and da comuinty i searchd over for months and i hope ppl here will motivate me cz i really dun kno from where to start or da workouts and the deit etc etc. i am 5'6 weigh 80 kgs (uuufff horrible i think)and 18 yrs old female ..i just want to lose 20 kgs as it x ideal body weight for my height.....ryt frm my chilhood i was chuubby bt nwadays i hve gaind much weight in my entire life .....for me da main prob x dat i feel my inner confidence x leaving me and i have started feeling dat i cannot look gud bcz of my being overweight problem may be i am getting into complex or watever...bt plz plz ppl i want u all to help me show me from where to start ...da deit plans and da workouts...
 
Originally Posted by MattHakor


Start with writing a list of why you want to get in shape and a list of what is holding you back.



i want to get in shape fr many reasons bt sme of dem r 1.for gaining my confidence back 2.fr feelnggood 3.i wanna look good actually my faceshape x lyk da thinner i get my face looks more pretty 4. may b i sound stupid bt all my frnds r extra skinny (weigh less den 50 kgs)and dey look pretty and awesome so naturally i want lose and luk good as far as things dat r holding me back r 1.i think my weight lose more slowly den at normal rate and i gain weight easily so i usually get discourage and leave everything and so i gain double 2.mostly wen em overburdened with studies or anything i gain too much so it becmes more discouraging fr me to lose 3.my discouraging nature x a basic prob fr me BT NW i seriously decided to lose bt from where to start????? ..............bdw i likd da qoutation
 
The txt speak and the spaces and stuff you're adding in to your post make it really hard to read what you're saying.


My basic advice for people starting is not to worry too much about exercise or gym or workout routines or anything terribly stressful or complicated, just make some basic healthy changes to get started with, cut out hi calorie snacks, cut out any fizzy drinks (if you're a big fizzy drink fan, switch to diet or no-sugar variants like Pepsi Max). Make changes to your diet that are maintainable, things that you can stick to long term.


Diet is where you'll lose most of your weight, ideally you want to learn to count calories and make sure intake calories are lower than outgoing calories forcing your body to burn fat to make up the difference. I use www.livestrong.com to help track my calories, you can use their feature called myplate with a free account and track your calories, once you've put in your vitals (height, weight etc) it will tell you how many calories you need to eat every day to maintain a steady weightloss of your choice, there are other websites like this, I'm not endorsing this one it just happens to be the one I use and does everything I need.


When you're on a good diet and losing weight steadily you can think about what sort of additional exercise you want to do, it will aid weightloss and get you fitter but it's not strictly necessary for losing weight, exercise can be off putting for a lot of people so I always say focus on the diet first and add in exercise as and when you feel you can.
 
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