Clueless as to what I should do next

Matt2

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For those who've been following my saga, I've gone from an 800 calorie diet and plateauing, to eating regular homecooked meals and just exercising more. I'm 15 Y/O, 6 foot 1 inches, and 242 lbs.

Now, the thing is, I'm not dieting anymore, I'm just eating what my mother cooks (which isn't that bad, I tell you, it's not burgers every day or anything stupid like that). I've cut fizzy drinks, snacks, and try and fill up on vegetables. I try eating some breakfast in the morning to get me going, and try to eat 3 meals a day at regular intervals (I'm not going on that 'eat 6 times a day' crap, there's no proof that it works nor does it make any bloody sense. Furthermore, I'm a highschool student, I don't have time for that kinda stuff).

So, what have I done to compensate the lack of 'dieting?' I've started walking longer/faster, boxing, and doing some weight lifting (not much, though). The thing is, on some days I lose a lot of weight, on some days I stay the same, and sometimes I go up a little. There's no telling if it's the food I eat because sometimes it's the same stuff (leftovers), and a lot of the time I don't eat THAT much, but I'm a big guy so I eat what I need to keep me going.

So even though my eating and exercising is roughly stable, my weight each day is as individual as a over-expressive teenager. I've been trying to look at in the "long run" but I just seem to stay the same-ish. I've lost like 2 lbs in 2 weeks, with this variating weight, so it's not a disaster or anything yet.

My dad tells me the longer it takes for me to lose weight the easier it'll be to keep it off, so I'm wondering if this is good or not...? At this rate, it'll take me many months to finally throw off this baggage I've been carrying for so long, and even though I'd like for things to go faster, I know what happened last time I cut my calories.

I'm thinking I should maybe start upping my exercise but I don't know exactly how. All I have at home is an exercise band, a punching bag and a basketball hoop which I sometimes use. I want to start jogging instead of walking, but I don't know if I'm ready for that yet, I've only been walking for about a month and a half. I can't join a gym because I have no means of transport or any money for the membership.

Furthermore, I don't want to join any school sports, they eat up too much of my time and I'm trying to get a job as well as fit in all this exercising. Right now I'm walking 1 hr a day, boxing for 15 mins, lifting for 15 mins and fitting in a small bike ride every here and there. It's not much, but in this Arizona heat it's a bit tougher.

Should I up my exercise? Am I going at the right pace? Is there any exercising I'm not doing that could help my situation?

All comments are appreciated.
 
My dad tells me the longer it takes for me to lose weight the easier it'll be to keep it off, so I'm wondering if this is good or not...? At this rate, it'll take me many months to finally throw off this baggage I've been carrying for so long,
What will keep the weight off for good, is building new habits and making this a lifestyle change -which willinclude all your favorite foods or finding new favorites and not depriving yourself - Speed is less relevant than building the new habits are and not seeing it as a diet...

I'm having trouble understanding what your current exercise regime is.

Be specific

Monday -
Tuesday -
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday

what are yoou doing each day and for how long...

it sounds like you're walking daily - What kind of distance are you covering in that hour?
 
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hey, I just wanted to say, WOW! what a mature 15 year old...

too bad sports are out for you, my daughter has rock hard abs from cheerleading and my son has really become fit playing lacrosse....good luck with whatever you decide to do...
 
What will keep the weight off for good, is building new habits and making this a lifestyle change -which willinclude all your favorite foods or finding new favorites and not depriving yourself - Speed is less relevant than building the new habits are and not seeing it as a diet...

I'm having trouble understanding what your current exercise regime is.

Be specific

Monday -
Tuesday -
Wednesday
Thursday
Friday
Saturday
Sunday

what are yoou doing each day and for how long...

it sounds like you're walking daily - What kind of distance are you covering in that hour?

I've been eating all the foods I usually would eat (no fast food, no chocolate, no fizzy drinks or crisps/chips or anything of the sort). I took all your advice from the last topic, and stopped 'dieting' and changed my eating habits. I eat a lot more fruit and veg now, I always check labels for lower-calorie/healthier meals, and pretty much only drink water; and plan to keep doing these things.

My exercise regime in detail is as follows:

Monday - After school I walk roughly 2.5 - 3 miles in 1 hour. After that, I box for about 15 minutes, then lift weights (or use my exercise band rather) focusing on my upper body (I figure the walking takes care of my lower body. Sometimes, probably 2 days out of the week, I'll go for an additional 1/4 mile bike ride or maybe play basketball for 20 minutes.

Tuesday - Walk for the hour, lift weights for 15 mins, box for 15 mins.

Wednesday - Walk for the hour, lift weights for 15 mins, box for 15 mins.

Thursday - Walk for the hour, lift weights for 15 mins, box for 15 mins.

Friday - Walk for the hour, lift weights for 15 mins, box for 15 mins.

Saturday - I allow myself 2 days out of the week to NOT do my exercises. It's optional to me, and I can use any days I like, but only 2 days out of the week. If I was feeling up to it, I'd go for a walk, do the boxing and weightlifting as well.

Sunday - Same as Saturday


hey, I just wanted to say, WOW! what a mature 15 year old...

too bad sports are out for you, my daughter has rock hard abs from cheerleading and my son has really become fit playing lacrosse....good luck with whatever you decide to do...

Yeah I've been told I'm mature for my age :blush5:

The thing is, I came to America from my hometown of Portslade, England, and have no idea how the sports here work. I don't know the rules, and I'll feel really out of place trying to learn them and failing miserably.

I initially got overweight from my lack of sporting ability. I could never run that much without getting out of breath and got embarrassed all the time so I just stopped exercising. The last thing I want to do right now is play a sport I don't know with people I don't know in a country I'm very new to.

I also don't excel in any American sports; I mainly played Rugby and a bit of football here and there (our football :p).

However, to graduate I need a year of P.E., so I'm taking weights next year (my senior year, I'm a year or two ahead of everyone). Hopefully that will also get me motivated to get in shape, but as for extra sports outside of school hours - I just don't think it's my thing at the moment :p


Thanks for the posts!
 
Read the stickied posts in the exercise forum... you'll get a lot of goodinfo on cardio/weight training...

you should be doing the strength training before you're doign the cardio.. you'll get more out of it - and you probably want more than 15 minutes ofit -

what does each workout consist of?
 
Best fish and chips I have had in my entire life - and I've had a pretty long life was in Brighton... great place... :D
 
Read the stickied posts in the exercise forum... you'll get a lot of goodinfo on cardio/weight training...

you should be doing the strength training before you're doign the cardio.. you'll get more out of it - and you probably want more than 15 minutes ofit -

what does each workout consist of?

Read the stickies beforehand- I just was really bad at HIIT so I figured I'd try and get in better shape before I try it again, heh. Is walking considered cardio? So I should weight train, then walk, then box?

I'll try to fit in more time weight training, but there's oh so little I can do with an exercise band. Still, at least it isn't the old spring operated exercise bands where they'd pinch your skin and rip your hair out, I've heard some pretty bad stories.

I'll try and look up some new exercises that I can perform with the exercise band, I'm sure that'll give me some variation to work with.

Each work out consists of:

Walking - I just walk at a nice quick pace, some of it is uphill, some down. 1 hr.

Weights - Biceps, Tricepts, Pectorals and some calf exercises. 15 mins.

Boxing - jabs, hooks, ducks, dodges and some accuracy training that I put myself through. 15 mins.

Best fish and chips I have had in my entire life - and I've had a pretty long life was in Brighton... great place... :D

Wait you've lived in Brighton? My mum owns a chip shop along Boundary called the Athena B, ever been to it?

Glad you liked Brighton :-D
 
I think there should be plenty of sports in America that you can play--soccer, basketball, tennis and swimming are all quite international. Sure, there's no cricket or rugby (well, some rugby), but you can always learn something new. If you enjoy sports, try it. In my experience, Americans are very welcoming to Brits, so I would think that no one would make fun of you anymore than they would make fun of anyone else. :D What about a martial art? When I lived in Korea I studied Tae Kwon Do. It was a lot of fun, and I learned a lot. And even though I was rather awkward most of the time, the Koreans never made fun of me, and were very friendly. Part of the fun of living in a foreign country is learning new things. At least it is for me. If you've never played American football before, I'm sure your teammates would be excited to teach you the game. :)

Mal, have you ever had Aussie fish and chips? I've had both British and Aussie, and I have to say it's generally better in Australia. HOwever, I'm sure Matt's mom's shop is the bomb. :biggrinjester: Great, now I'm craving fish and chips. :drool5:
 
I think there should be plenty of sports in America that you can play--soccer, basketball, tennis and swimming are all quite international. Sure, there's no cricket or rugby (well, some rugby), but you can always learn something new. If you enjoy sports, try it. In my experience, Americans are very welcoming to Brits, so I would think that no one would make fun of you anymore than they would make fun of anyone else. :D What about a martial art? When I lived in Korea I studied Tae Kwon Do. It was a lot of fun, and I learned a lot. And even though I was rather awkward most of the time, the Koreans never made fun of me, and were very friendly. Part of the fun of living in a foreign country is learning new things. At least it is for me. If you've never played American football before, I'm sure your teammates would be excited to teach you the game. :)

Mal, have you ever had Aussie fish and chips? I've had both British and Aussie, and I have to say it's generally better in Australia. HOwever, I'm sure Matt's mom's shop is the bomb. :biggrinjester: Great, now I'm craving fish and chips. :drool5:

Heh, I'm terrible at those kind of international sports. The only real sports I got into were boxing and rugby, because I loved the fact that you could go nuts and hurt people. If someone was to make fun of my accent, I'm not the type that would let it slide, so I don't want to go down that lane.

I actually studied Karate in Viet Nam. My dad is a civil engineer, and we went to live with him for a few years. I don't remember much of it, but now that you mention it, I'd love to get into one of those fields again. I'm checking out what boxing/kickboxing/Karate classes they have at the community college on Monday, so thanks for the brilliant suggestion. :biggrinjester:

I've been craving a good savaloy and chips ever since I came to America, don't know if they have those in Australia or not but they are fab. :D
 
Weights - Biceps, Tricepts, Pectorals and some calf exercises. 15 mins.
With weights -and I always feel like an idiot when I talk like this because I'm still learning it myself... but you get a lot more bang for your workout buck if you focus on compound movements...

Like squats and lunges rather than just focusing on isolated movements.

I sound like a broken record when I say this -but it's really important - do read the stickied threads -a lot of thought and information goes into those threads and they contain really useful info that will help you get to where you want to be.
 
Man I loved boxing with the bag. I began to destroy my hands after a while cause I wasn't taking enough time to heal. Too bad I don't have one where I am now but I can't wait to get back home and start again. Anyway...

My advice is to do a walking jog combo. Start with maybe jogging for 30 seconds then walking for 1:30 or 2:00 then start again. After a while you'll build up stamina. Keep up the boxing and lifting. I usually did 2 minute rounds and then lifted a bit between them. Male sure you have hand wraps they are great. Good luck.
 
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