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charming1

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I just joined today and weighed myself this morning as preparation for a weight loss challenge. I couldn't believe the scale -- 205 lbs!! I'm only five foot four. Holy s____! How did this happen?

I've had a VERY bad year. My eating habits are better than average, but not great. I just lost my motivation to exercise and pay attention to what I eat. The details are rather painful, but I can give you some of the "low points." My mother passed away last year after a sudden onset medical condition. I watched my business that I worked hard on for three years implode as I struggled to take care of her. My professional colleagues turned on me and took advantage of my absence from my office. (Don't lawyers suck?) Judges told me to "put [my] mother in a home and get over it" when I tried to make changes to my schedule to take care of her. (I used to want to be a judge.) I've been destroyed financially. Lost my house and my good credit rating. Anyway, it was a horrible year and I'm looking forward to putting all of this behind me. Moved away and started over.

I've always weighed quite a bit more than people assumed I did. My goal is 145 lbs. For me, this is a size 8 or sometimes a 6. This will be my third time on the weight-loss-go-round in the last eight years. I've marched from a size 22 to an 8 and from a size 18 to an 8 before. It takes about 6-8 months for me to accomplish my goal.

I refuse to "diet" or take weird supplements for weight loss. Who can maintain that for the rest of their life? I'm going to use the same plan that has worked for me before, something I can live with.

For food - 1/2 of the plate is fruit or veggies, 1/4 lean protein, 1/4 whole grain or starch. If I want seconds, more veggies. Once a week, a "free meal" of whatever I want.

For exercise - 60 minutes three days a week aerobic exercise, 60 minutes three days a week strength training and stretching. I use the principle of muscle confusion and pick an activity at random. Aerobic exercise is dancing, walking, kick boxing or karate. Strength training and stretching are pilates, yoga, fluidity, and my total gym.

I've always had a curvy figure. My bust, hips and rear end don't shrink much when I lose weight. I'm way too curvy to ever be called "skinny," even when I'm thin. I'm 39 years old. But I've been blessed with great genes and look much much younger. I'm taking college courses right now and I get asked out by the "kiddies" all the time.

My goal is to lose 60 lbs by the end of the year, before I turn 40. To get back to a size 8. I'm at an 18 right now.

I am planning a trip to Puerto Rico for Spring Break. I know I'm not going to lose a huge amount of weight by then. But I'd like to minimize my self consciousness on the beach. I already bought a bright red bathing suit - size 14. If I can wear it without looking too "jiggly wiggly" I'm going to be very pleased.

Thanks for reading! :seeya:
 
I'm on track for the first week

First week down. I lost 2.5 lbs this week so I'm on track to lose 20 pounds in 8 weeks in time for my vacation to Puerto Rico. I met my exercise goal, but I didn't do so well on the diet goal. I managed to avoid fast food for a whole week. But I skipped breakfast at least three times this week to get into the office early and take care of my broken down car issues. I have to do better on that.

This was the first week of my new semester of school. A little chaotic until I get used to the new work and school schedule for this quarter. Once I get the routine down, I'll be fine.

I'm excited. This is the first time that I've ever lost weight during the first week of a new program. It certainly has done wonders for my motivation. It was really easy to exercise this morning.

Starting weight: 205 lbs
Today's weight: 202.5 lbs
Starting size: 16
Today's size: 16
 
Week Two

I guess this is a setback of sorts. I didn't lose any weight this week. Oh well, at least I didn't gain anything. I know that muscle weighs more than fat, but when I don't lose any weight because of exercise, it makes me want to stop exercising. I'm trying to concentrate on the fact that my pants are looser and more comfortable. But that scale is mocking me. 202.5 lbs. Bummer.
 
I know what not seeing the scale budge feels like! Can you get someone to take your measurements? It's frustrating not seeing the scale moving, but great to see the measurements shrink! Hang in there. Your plan sounds great, I really like how you divide up your plate :)
 
Welcome to the forum! Sounds like you are realistic with your plan and goal - this is very do-able!

Sorry you've had a tough go the last while. It's nasty when others fail to show basic compassion. Hope you are doing better these days. Getting your weight under control will help incredibly, as you already know.

Best wishes on your journey!:auto:
ABBA
ps. we are pretty near the same height and age, and with nearly the same starting point! I look forward to following your progress.:Angel_anim:
 
Week Three

Looks like I'm back on track for week 3. I lost my 2.5 pounds. So, I'm down from 202.5 to 200 lbs. I'm still a bit confused about my failure to lose any weight during the second week. Isn't week two too early for a plateau?

I've made some changes to my diet and exercise plan. It was time to adapt to some of the realities of my life. First, I don't particularly care for a lot of meat in my diet. I like fish and turkey. I'm lactose intolerant so I can't have too much dairy in one day. Soy gives me dark spots on my face called melasma, so I avoid it. I'm finding it tough to stick with the 1/4 of the plate as protein as a meal plan for every meal. Sometimes, I just don't want to eat any animal protein. I guess that's okay. I can have nuts, one serving of dairy each day, and beans. There's protein in bread and pasta too.

Second, fast food and to go food are a part of my life. I can't get around it because of my schedule and because I can't bring food and drink into a lot of the buildings I go into because of metal detectors. They are in every courthouse. Well, every restaurant, convenience store and fast food place has something healthy. I just have to avoid the french fries, mayo, and deep fried stuff. Some places even provide the nutritional information for me. I bring fruit and sliced veggies with me when I can (some courthouses are more lenient than others).

Third, always stretch before you exercise. Geez, why did I forget that? Because I didn't consider dancing to be exercise. It's way too fun.

Starting Weight -- 205 lbs
Today's Weight -- 200 lbs
Starting Size -- size 18 (I messed up the size on the first week)
Today's Size -- size 18 (okay, I can squeeze into a 16 but it's not comfortable so I'm not counting it yet)

Bought my plane ticket for Puerto Rico today. Countdown to me, in a red bathing suit, on the beach - 7 weeks! Lock up your sons!! :coolgleamA:
 
Week Five

I was so busy that I forgot to weigh myself or log in for week four. Had company and took some short trips out of town. Plus side - I did A LOT of walking. Down side - I had A LOT of restaurant food. And not the healthy kind either. Did not want to get on the scale this morning. I didn't lose any weight. But at least I didn't gain any either. I suppose that is a victory. I'm concentrating on the fact that I have lost a size in five weeks. Only five pounds lost so far. But I look thinner. And I can exercise now without feeling like my heart is going to pop out of my chest. So, I'm sort of happy. But why wont this weight come off????

Just five weeks to go until my trip to Puerto Rico. Can I lose two sizes in five weeks? I better or I wont have a bathing suit to wear!!

Starting Weight: 205 lbs
Today's Weight: 200 lbs
Starting Size: 18
Today's Size: 16
 
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