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I am new to this site. I am a 32f mother of 2 beautiful daughters. I am desperate to loose weight and I am determined to do it the right way and not go the easy route of surgery. This is sort of a last attempt before pondering the gastric bypass surgery. I have always struggled with my weight. At 5 years old I was the cute little chubby kid. I thinned out some as I got older and after high school I struggled to maintain a good weight. I met the man of my dreams 5 years ago and we married.At that time I was around 175 pounds. I became pg with my first daughter and had to go on bedrest. I put on a good bit of wt and I think I was around 275 when she was born. Two years later I became pg with my second daughter and by that time I was still hovering around 250 pounds. I again had a very hard pg and had to be hospitalized several times with toxemia. After her birth I was right at 300 pounds. I have not lost any of the weight and my daughters are 3 and 5 now. I have terrible problems with swelling in my feet and legs and back pain from being so overweight. I also become very short of breath with much excertion. I dont know where to begin or what to do. What can I do to start the weight loss process?I cant do much excercising or mvmt because of the shortness of breath and inability to move. I know that cutting back eating is a must and also that too drastic a cutback will cause my body to store fat. SO where do I start? Any recommendations?????
 
Surgery isn't the easy way out... but you're better off going it without the surgery.

Where do you start? The place I started was taking a good honest look at what I was consuming and then worked thru cutting back those calories...

Pick a site like or and record what you are currently eating.. it's tough to cut back unless you know what you are taking in to begin with.

Then when you're ready - weigh measure, and record EVERYTHING you put in youor mouth... Everything counts.. maybe it's the obsessive in me but those little bits and pieces do add up... and start with a reasonable amount of calorues.. (when iwas 383 - I probably took in about 2500 - 2700 calories a day -thengradually cut back t where i am now at 1800-2000 calories...

And you want to move -that doesn't mean youo have to start running around the block, but walking for 15 minutes a day, and increasing your distance and time would be my suggestion.

Youo can do this if you really want it... just remind yourself why you want it - you want a healthy rest of your life... :)

oh yeah and welcome to thes ite - be sure to start yourself a diary to record your challenges and successes and allow us to get to know you better :)
 
welcome to the first day of the rest of your life. I've only been here a short time but so far I am finding a wealth of information support like never before and almoste every one here knows what you are going through. I was so tempted to find a way to do the surgery thing, but now that I have seen that surgery isn't the key I feel much better and I am sure you will too.
 
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