Becoming A Healthy Mommy [Diary]

Loch

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I'm back!

Not sure who's still around, but I wanted to come back, and make a new thread. My life has changed, for the better, and I seriously need to give this another go.

Several months ago, I started to lose weight again, 20lb or so. I had a plan, I was going to climb Mt. Kilimanjaro by now. I was going to get my life together...and then, a month after financing my first car (to finally get my licence!# and a week after having a serious "not sure if this will work" talk with my boyfriend, I found out I was pregnant!

We'd been trying for 9 months, and to me, it felt like I was empty. I put all my energy into losing weight, and being positive some other way, and then it happened. It definitely put a lot of things into perspective. My boyfriend and I talk a lot more, and I've never been happier. I've wanted to start my family for a long time...and it's still hard to believe I'm a mom now!

Before my pregnancy I weighed 263...which was great, because my highest weight had been 280

273lb here
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Looking back at the picture, I feel like I was so skinny lol!

By the end of my pregnancy, I had gained a whopping 65lb.

328lb here...but look at that bump!
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My baby boy came 11 days early, and it was the happiest day of my life (also the most painful). He was a healthy 8lb 1oz and 21" long!

Christmas day!
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I'm now 295lb (I lost 33lb from baby and water retention!) and I really need to lose this weight. I'm having a hard time, because I don't have a lot of time to prepare meals, or think about much except baby and sleep...but I'm going to start making an effort.

I want to be able to run with my boy, play with him, teach him how to live healthy. I want to lead by example. I can't do that at 295lb. I want to be the best mom that I can be. So here I am again.

I have to wait until after the 29th to do any serious exercising, but I'm going to start doing my walking again, since I have the treadmill here at home. There is no excuse!

By the way, I make a damn cute baby.

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So thanks for reading! I wanna make an effort to post as much as I can! I'm gonna figure out my calories, make sure I eat enough for breastfeeding, and get in some kind of exercise. I've lost 50lb before, I can do it again (and more so)!
 
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Such a beautiful baby! He's going to be so handsome when he grows up, especially if you keep him in that bowtie! Good luck with your journey! As you've said, you lost 50lbs before and you most certainly can do it again!
 
Loch! I remember you, sweets. Your baby is beautiful :) And you look like a very happy mum! Welcome back honey and keep posting xo
 
Hi Loch, congratulations on having one of the cutest babies ever & welcome back to the forum. You can do it, as you say. You do look like the happiest Mum around!
 
O my!! Our little lady is a Mommy!! How exciting! I am such a sap...I teared up at the news and pics! He is absolutely perfect!

The best gift you can give yourself and your little man is to remember its ok not to be perfect..but being healthy and happy is a great life lesson to give him! I know you will do it!!

Congrats!!
 
Aw, thanks guys! It's so nice to see those familiar faces.

I am super happy, and I love my little guy!

This journey isn't an easy one. I know that I'm capable, but now that I'm not working, my days have no structure. It's all around the baby. I also find that I go out a lot more, and eat out...it's terrible!

I liked the humdrum of working (I have the next year off). At the time I was eager to get work off, but it was easier to schedule things...

Anyway! I just bought the second season of "My 600-lb Life". I remember it helping me get motivated in the past. I think a shopping trip tomorrow is in order, I wanna make ready to eat snacks and meals so I'm less tempted to eat bad.

Did I mention, when I went to my first OBGYN appointment, the doctor walked in and looked me over in surprise and said "There is NO way you're BMI is 40!" She was about to come in and tell me she'd had to refer me to a new doctor because she didn't handle obese pregnancies.

Proud moment, because she informed me that although I weighed 263lb, I had a lot of muscle on me. Good to know!
 
Yay! Welcome back! What a cute baby. You can do it! I found my kids to be a huge source of motivation for me to get in shape. I am so excited for you. :)
 
Welcome back Loch! And congrats on your beautiful baby boy. Several of us are still here. :D

I wish there was a season 3 of 600 lb life. I like that show too.
 
Thanks for the replies!

Cory, there is a "season 3" but it's basically a catch-up with the people from season 2. Still, was a good first episode!

Been super busy...and super bad. Let's just say this morning I weighed 300 and wasn't very happy about it. Last night I did some shopping and got some stuff I can make quickly. Hopefully I can stick with it!
 
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You will find your rhythm...small changes can have a big impact. Good Luck, I know you will stick with it!
 
Thanks Tete.

My biggest issue is that it's so easy to go out and eat...and I think I've done it almost every day since the baby arrived. It's easier to pack him up, go out, get a hot heal, and forget what it's like to be at home trying to survive.

I really need a kick in the butt, but right now, all I can do is keep trying.
 
I can imagine it's hard trying to be a new mom and manage weight loss at the same time. Just keep trying!
 
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