Hi Summer123,
Thank you so much for your advice also can you tell me something encouraging which you may have experienced during your weight loss time. This really feels like it is getting no where.
Its hard,-for me it is anyway! I have learnt the hard way that its really about what you put in your mouth and far less about how much exercise you do. I then was quzzing a gym instructor on weight loss who confirmed (begrudgingly) that it affexts weight loss to about 15%. Where as what you eat affects your weight loss to about 65%. Thats all in-the-air % marks which I am sure do vary but its safe to say that what you eat matters much more then how much you think your burning. Added to that the machines overexaggerate to make you feel your getting somewhere and continue to use them (so the company stays in employment). Only thing is several weeks and months later your left banging your head against the wall when the weight just wont shift!!
The best peice of advice I can give is to eat 3 meals a day, 3 snacks a day. Keep them calorie counted, work out how many calories you need per day and reduce this by up to 25%, this would be a good weight loss ball park mark to keep to, if you have a bad day, don't kill yourself over it, just do better the rest of the day and from then onwards, with weight loss its very much you get out what you put in to a degree- but you do not to put in alot of effort, if it was that easy we wouldn't have such high rates of obesity!
Exercise is important, don't get me wrong- every little bit helps and 15% is enough to make some form of difference, so keep up with the exercise, as often as you can, but best thing to remember is to enjoy it. Its not going to make mind blowing differences, you wont lose 10 stone by going to a gym 3 days a week, but it can take the edge off and no onw would turn down any amount of extra weight reduction. Added to that it boosts your self esteem, your more likely to want to keep to your diet if you believe in yourself and what you can do. It can also prevent you from eating- how many would instead be at the bar/club/at home eating ice cream instead of at the ashtanga/step/gym being active? that way it cuts calories and that can make a difference.
I am not sure where but I read somewhere there is a max amount of calories your body will allow to be burnt off by exercise, eventually it just slows right down, goes into some form of conservation and doesn't help you when you begin to eat again as its still in that slow lane and trying to concerve calories so exercise well, but remember to do so without over doing it.
You can do this, it is possible to lose weight, its not easy, but then nothing worth having ever is! Keep going, a good weight loss will happen slowly and surely, keep a log of what you eat so you can make sure your not overeating and forgetting what you ate (you'd be suprized at how frequenlty this happens), keep up the exercise, it can help, but I wouldn't say as literally as your thinking.