With all due respect to your reply, it wasn't very helpful.
1. Fact of the matter is, I DO struggle with getting my calories and you said it yourself, you see it a lot. While I'm happy you struggle with not getting your calories, and you're obviously successful, your reply in that aspect was somewhat condescending.
I think you took what I said the wrong way. I am just surprised when I read that people have a hard time eating 3000cal, so I'm kind of wondering if I have a problem - i.e. I'm a glutton and I eat too much!! I was really just thinking aloud and criticizing myself - it seriously wasn't meant to be condescending.
2. Again, fact of that matter is, I have no plan. The obvious answer to WHY I don't have a plan is because I don't know HOW to construct one properly. So while you may have some idea of what is right in saying "if you have plan in anything about life, you're more likely to succeed", it is nonetheless, once again unhelpful.
I was just trying to motivate you Mytch. You WILL do better if you have a plan and so I'm just trying to push you to do that. If you get the software version of FitDay it's much faster and easier to use than the 'online' version. You can punch in your meals/snacks pretty quickly - probably about 10-20 min total for a day. You can also plan meals in advance, see what the calorie/nutrition breakdown is and tweak them accordingly.
Just the process of writing down plans helps you to follow through on things and reach your goals, not only weightlifting, but in many other areas of life. I'm not trying to be condescending, I'm just trying to share something I have learned in my 39 years. Actually, I admire you for doing this now, I wish I had been doing this when I was your age!
I do drink a lot of shakes. I take 4 strawberries, a banana, creatine, or whey, depending, a raw egg, and milk and make a shake out of it. I do this about every other day.
Okay, just punch in each individual ingredient of the shake into FitDay and that will give you the total. If you make the same shake each time, you could add it as a custom meal for speed.
So once again, while I'm certainly glad that YOU are bulking fantastically, my post was not made so that you could compare how well you're doing to how bad I'm doing.
C'mon Mytch, I never said or implied this!

In fact, this is my first time bulking, and I'm not sure how the results are going yet. It's also been about 3 weeks for me, and I think it's a little early to tell. I have noticed a bit of extra pudge on my gut - I don't know if that's fantastic!

That's the reason I'm concerned about eating toooo much.
We're all learning together, and that was the only reason for my post - to share and bounce ideas off of each other.
BTW where's Robinson? I grew up in the Chicago area.