16 year old needs help please

Hey guys well I just started going to gym been about 3 weeks maybe, and I was wondering how many reps/sets I should do, My goal is to look big/build muscle. I am a pretty skinny guy ( 5'9 138ish pounds). But the weight that I do have is all fat, no muscle. I want to turn that into muscle but I'm also trying to increase my weight. How many reps/sets should I do, also I am doing split workouts, Monday - Triceps/Chest Wednesday - Biceps/Back Friday Abs/Legs. should I do cardio on the weekends or would it just lower my weight. I'm also doing the push/pull split thing, is it any good? My friend recommended that I when I workout I should do one excersise of say tris, then one of chest then back to tris then to chest again, or should I just do one muscle at a time?

Sorry for the long post, but if you could please help I would really appreciate it. thanks alot
 
How many reps, sets should you do? Most people I know say to do 3 sets. I know people who look amazing who swear you only need to do one set of any exercise. I do 3 sets mostly because I feel it will give me more of a weight loss benefit.

How many reps? Convention puts you somewhere between 8 and 15. Start in there somewhere. There are no hard and fast rules, here. There are people who compete in the Olympics whose sets comprise 1 or 2 reps, some whose sets comprise hundreds. 8 to 15 is a good starter range. If you try to do 1 or 2 with massive weight, you're going to hurt yourself. If you do hundreds, you'll get terminal boredom. Also, those two set sizes are for very specific goals you probably don't have.

If you can't do 8, go down in weight. If you can do 15 without any difficulty, go up in weight.

As far as working one muscle at a time, I'll just tell you my approach. I never, ever, at no time do that, ever. In fact, some of the fittest, most cut people I've known did little more than full squats, push ups and sit ups. Obviously, they did variations on these...pistons, fingertip push ups, but think about that. Three exercises, none of which require a trip to the gym, can get you somewhere you want to be.

Nor is it just about efficacy. Each muscle is a part of a larger system of muscles designed to work in concert to achieve motive power. Your muscles are supposed to work together so work them out together. That's my stance.

I'm not saying that isolating is a bad thing, always, no matter what. There are some really good reasons to isolate but, if you don't have one...and I'm going to make the call here, you don't have one...don't do it.

Now, people here and out there might completely disagree with me on everything I've said. This is due to one of the most common aspects of weightlifting...the constant influx of conflicting advice. Think critically and do your own research. That goes for weightlifting and every other thing you do for the rest of your life. ;)
 
^ Well I disagree with sit ups ;P And I prefer to keep reps single-digit. Otherwise, I tend to agree with you. I don't see a whole lot of point in doing bodypart splits. Just to make a point, squats use the quads, hamstrings, glutes, spinal erectors, core, posterior delts and trapezius. They are a "leg" exercise. Bench press uses pectorals, anterior delts, triceps, serratus anterior, biceps, trapezius, spinal erectors, cores, glutes and quadriceps. They are a "chest" exercise. Deadlifts work essentially the same muscles as squats. They are a "back" exercise. Most people who promote splits say that it's to let the muscles fully heal before you use them again, when in reality they're using the exact same muscles the next day, just in a different way. I'm amazed at how often I see bench press on one day, overhead press the very next day, then arms the very next day after that. Sorry, OP, I'm starting to rant and ramble.

The ingrediants of a good resistance training program are, generally speaking, a deep knee bend (squat), pushing something heavy away from your body (presses, push ups, dips) and picking something heavy up off the floor (deadlifts, rows). I generally prefer to recommend 3-5 exercises/day, 3-5 sets per exercise, 3-5 min rest between sets, and 3-8 reps per set. Make sure you spend some time learning technique before you worry about adding weight, because bad technique makes injuries. Never increase the weight on an exercise unless you can complete all intended reps for all intended sets without sacrificing good form.
 
I think Quadlas and Goldfish are giving good advice. I'll go one step further and say do only compound exercises. The New Rules of Lifting and Men's Health magazine have formal programs that would serve you well.

Ryan, 3 - 5 minutes rest between sets sounds like a lot. I would think 1 - 2 minutes, maybe 3 minutes if lifting heavy, would be more appropriate, especially for a young person.
 
Quadlaser - I know what you mean about not working one muscle at a time, I mean to say should I do like a muscle group specific workouts or just a full body everyday? Obviously each exercises doesn't just workout one muscle, it uses more then one but usually they are of the same group, so full body vs specific muscle group parts.

Goldfish - What is a resistance training program? and how does it benefit my goals?

g8r80 - Yah, that is how long I rest for right now.

Also I'm not overweight I consider myself very skinny, but I am gradually gaining weight, I just want to the turn the fat that I have right now into muscle.

Thanks for the advice guys.
 
Your chest is a group of muscles. Yes. So is your back. Yes. Both groups are separate and distinct from your biceps.

This is what I'm talking about:

If you are straining your biceps without relying heavily on your chest or back or shoulders or abs or even triceps, I'd bet dollars to doughnuts you are in the gym weight training. You're not doing anything that needs to be done. You aren't helping a friend move a couch. You aren't helping your mom bring in groceries or opening a difficult jar lid for her.

When my two year old niece looks up at me and spreads her arms, I employ just about all my muscle groups together to squat down, secure her in my grip and lift her into the air.

Ideally, I think you should do your whole body at once. However, especially just starting out, I don't see a problem doing upper body and lower body on different days. I don't want you to isolate any further than that.
 
Quad, when I do a full body workout, I don't feel like I've done anything, I mean it feels like I'm doing nothing, and wasting my time, its more intense for me to do individual muscle groups. When I did do full bodywork outs I only did 1 exercise for each muscle group so was that the problem or what?
 
Nobody seems to have mentioned your diet which is bizarre. If you're looking to gain weight then that comes 100% from your diet, there's no training programme in the world that will help you gain mass without a calorie surplus.

What does your current diet look like and have you ever tried to track your calorie intake?
Post up a typical daily intake for people to take a look at as skinny guys looking to build mass are usually failing at the diet stage.

As for full body or splits, they both work so choose the one that works best for you. Try them both for about 10 weeks and see how you go.
 
I think Quadlas and Goldfish are giving good advice. I'll go one step further and say do only compound exercises. The New Rules of Lifting and Men's Health magazine have formal programs that would serve you well.

Ryan, 3 - 5 minutes rest between sets sounds like a lot. I would think 1 - 2 minutes, maybe 3 minutes if lifting heavy, would be more appropriate, especially for a young person.

My opinion (and this is only my opinion) is that generally speaking, if you can do the same weight for the same reps 1-2min after a set of the exercise, you didn't give the previous set its money's worth. There are certainly pros and cons to different rest periods, but I think anything under 3min, for the most part, is making a focus on cardiovascular/pump/fun factors more so than progressive strength. And it's fine to incorporate those aspects, but strictly speaking I don't think it's ideal for his goals.

maninder57, resistance training is the broad category that covers training with free weights, bodyweight and machine weight exercises, as well as things such as resistance tubes/bands.
 
Nobody seems to have mentioned your diet which is bizarre. If you're looking to gain weight then that comes 100% from your diet, there's no training programme in the world that will help you gain mass without a calorie surplus.

What does your current diet look like and have you ever tried to track your calorie intake?
Post up a typical daily intake for people to take a look at as skinny guys looking to build mass are usually failing at the diet stage.

As for full body or splits, they both work so choose the one that works best for you. Try them both for about 10 weeks and see how you go.

Well, I think I am gaining weight, I weighed about 120, started eating alot and I'm know at 137ish, 5'8 but the thing is I've been at 137ish for about a month or two now, and I just want to turn my body fat that I have right now into fat, also I consider my self very weak at the moment, I want to gain strength is there a way to gain both muscle and strength at the same time ( sets/rep wise)

thanks alot everyone.
 
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