Oh, Llama
Anxiety really sucks. Do you not feel safe in your apartment?
When the anxiety hits I don't feel safe anywhere, but my apartment is the safest I
can feel. It gets way worse when I'm home alone out in the country, in a house with lots of hidey-holes... Brrr!
Are there foods or beverages that help to calm your stomach? K gets pains from gluten, so I give her probiotic yogurt, and that helps her sometimes. I know your stomach troubles are completely different though!
Yogurt kind of upsets my stomach at the best of times. Really the only solution for me is time, sleep, and trying to drink water if my body will let me without hurling.
It doesn't surprise me too much about admiring those body types--i feel like we can't help but get affected by what is put out there by society as 'ideal' We don't really have many different body type examples out there. I will never be wispy. And now I feel like I'm growing even more into a very solid body type. I may not celebrate my look too much, but I do love the feel of being in a body with muscle and strength--it's a new feeling for me in general...i feel like I can't wear dresses or skirts though...like it wouldn't suit my body...but that is just because of what i think of what one 'should' look like in a dress or skirt. My grandma was much more solidly built than me and she wore dresses..so maybe i just need to change my idea of that too!
What I admire most is short-ish and boyish, which is basically the opposite of me
I avoided skirts and dresses for a
long time as well but eventually I realized that they look fine on bigger bodies as long as you can create (the illusion of) a defined waist*. Like: I have a shortish, blockish torso but between the wide shoulders and hips it still looks like I have some kind of waist and that's all it takes.
Work was very reasonable today but the cramping was
bad and I just threw in the towel for today. I don't even feel bad, or feel like I binged, but I did: I probably overate by 2500 calories or so. So... double my maintenance calories. That can't be great, really, but it was just that kind of day. Drinking lots of water and will make sure to go to bed early. And prep breakfast.
* Which is a thing I despise, by the way. Why is the only acceptable way to be heavier as a woman to have an hourglass figure? I adore Gok Wan but when he did "How to look good naked" the main thing he did in every episode was stick the women in shapewear so they'd have a waist and I
hated it. I mean: that's the literal opposite of what the show name suggests!