it is not just about an overweight thing. It is about lifestyle and health. It is a fact that obese people are not healthy. Period. I am not talking fat though, I am talking obese. People are naturally attracted to healthier looking people because it is a reaction to their reproductive need whether they know it or not.
Do men find fat women attractive?
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I think it's the other way around. I see plenty of thing ladies with larger men. Maybe it's because the lady feels more comfortable that a less attractive male would be less likely to cheat on her, but I don't know. Attraction is complicated and unique for everyone.
I for one know that I am attracted to thin ladies most of the time.
I for one know that I am attracted to thin ladies most of the time.
this is a silly question. in your opinion, a relationship is only about sex? firstly, what do you mean by 'do men like'? do men like to have sex with fat or skinny? I bet you will find different preferences, but why do you even care about who would like to have sex with you? relationship is about love, its nothing to do with fat.
WOW.. I'm surprised someone posted a poll about this... especially on here...
I have slept with overweight women before.. they do give GREAT h**d lol.. (my guess is because they feel they need to learn how if a man will be with them)
on another note.. my wife is 5' 7" about 120lbs... she is SLIM.. and I love it..
More then anything I love a chesty woman.. and well that can compliment a smaller or larger women if it looks good.
I have slept with overweight women before.. they do give GREAT h**d lol.. (my guess is because they feel they need to learn how if a man will be with them)
on another note.. my wife is 5' 7" about 120lbs... she is SLIM.. and I love it..
More then anything I love a chesty woman.. and well that can compliment a smaller or larger women if it looks good.
"Fat" is in the eye of the beholder. My father thinks that all the women I find attractive are fat when they are just curvy.
I like women slim or curvy, both have their advantages haha.
I'll be honest, I don't find overweight women attractive, and i'm not ashamed to admit it either.
It's the same the other way around, I don't see why a woman would be likely to find an overweight man attractive.
Thing is, an overweight man is more likely to go out with an overweight woman, and vice versa. It sounds horrible but the age old term about one being in anothers "league" holds true in life. I would never actually say "i'm in a different league to you" - that would be sad, but society dictates we will go for people similar to us.
You should never tease anybody about their weight in a malicious way, I think that's cruel and I wouldn't do it.
Personality is a big thing, very important, but the initial attraction has to be there. My girlfriend thinks i'm great, but she thinks the fact i'm good looking is just a big bonus
Or so she tells me
Oh and my current girlfriend is petite and slim but still with the right amount in the chestal area (is chestal a word?), my last girlfriend (was quite long term) had a more curvy figure. Curvy is completely different to overweight though. Sometimes I think guys understand what is meant by "curvy" more so than a lot of women do.
I'll be honest, I don't find overweight women attractive, and i'm not ashamed to admit it either.
It's the same the other way around, I don't see why a woman would be likely to find an overweight man attractive.
Thing is, an overweight man is more likely to go out with an overweight woman, and vice versa. It sounds horrible but the age old term about one being in anothers "league" holds true in life. I would never actually say "i'm in a different league to you" - that would be sad, but society dictates we will go for people similar to us.
You should never tease anybody about their weight in a malicious way, I think that's cruel and I wouldn't do it.
Personality is a big thing, very important, but the initial attraction has to be there. My girlfriend thinks i'm great, but she thinks the fact i'm good looking is just a big bonus
Or so she tells me
Oh and my current girlfriend is petite and slim but still with the right amount in the chestal area (is chestal a word?), my last girlfriend (was quite long term) had a more curvy figure. Curvy is completely different to overweight though. Sometimes I think guys understand what is meant by "curvy" more so than a lot of women do.
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Im not slim myself, but me personally prefere slim woman, its just a preferance lol
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it's not that the media promotes "healthy" women, it's that they promote unhealthily thin women.
I actually saw a list of celebrities' BMIs and most of the currently-promoted screen divas have a BMI around 17. 20 is minimum for a healthy weight.
Though, sad to say, I think men prefer skinny-looking women when it has nothing to do with the health issue..take women like Fergie, Monica Bellucci, or Jessica Biel, who naturally have a pretty broad body frame, without being overweight, and are not as "attractive" as skinny-armed Angelina Jolie and Megan Fox..and why would that be?
I'd say men prefer underweight women, actually.I know lots of girls who have pretty ugly faces, with large crooked noses and small thin-lipped mouths who are being largely pursued by men because they have incredibly skinny bodies, with absolutely no fat on them.
I know one girl who is 5'8(170 centimeters, dunno if I got it right) and about 110 pounds (47 kilos) and she changes boyfriends at least twice a year, even though her face is somewhere between average and ugly.
If that's not media-conditioned, it's p.u.s.s.y-whipped behavior of a man who doesn't want a woman who looks like she could give him a considerable beating.
I actually saw a list of celebrities' BMIs and most of the currently-promoted screen divas have a BMI around 17. 20 is minimum for a healthy weight.
Though, sad to say, I think men prefer skinny-looking women when it has nothing to do with the health issue..take women like Fergie, Monica Bellucci, or Jessica Biel, who naturally have a pretty broad body frame, without being overweight, and are not as "attractive" as skinny-armed Angelina Jolie and Megan Fox..and why would that be?
I'd say men prefer underweight women, actually.I know lots of girls who have pretty ugly faces, with large crooked noses and small thin-lipped mouths who are being largely pursued by men because they have incredibly skinny bodies, with absolutely no fat on them.
I know one girl who is 5'8(170 centimeters, dunno if I got it right) and about 110 pounds (47 kilos) and she changes boyfriends at least twice a year, even though her face is somewhere between average and ugly.
If that's not media-conditioned, it's p.u.s.s.y-whipped behavior of a man who doesn't want a woman who looks like she could give him a considerable beating.
I think we all know the answer to this question. As a rule...of course they don't! But, like most things, there are exceptions to the rule. First let me just say that the guy in the video is an idiot! He's speaking for himself, not all men but that's not to say that some of what he says is actually true. Like the part where he says men don't care about 'pretty' they care about body size. That's very true but as I said, that doesn't apply to all men. While alot of men are like him....superficial and shallow and only care about looks. There are also alot of men who want the same things that women want.. a nice, honest person with a sense of humor who will just love them as they are and treat them with respect.
I haven't found anyone like that yet as I usually encounter the shallow ones who won't look at a woman who isn't a size 5, kinda like that ugly f** in the video but maybe someday I'll get lucky and find the guy out there who's for me.
Maggie, don't be discouraged over what one moron in a video says. LIke someone else wrote, don't lose weight just to find someone. If you are happy with yourself, you'll find someone who will be happy with you as you are. Because I have heard from alot of people that guys like women who are confident and accepting of themselves. If you want to lose weight then do it because you just want to. Good Luck!
I haven't found anyone like that yet as I usually encounter the shallow ones who won't look at a woman who isn't a size 5, kinda like that ugly f** in the video but maybe someday I'll get lucky and find the guy out there who's for me.
Maggie, don't be discouraged over what one moron in a video says. LIke someone else wrote, don't lose weight just to find someone. If you are happy with yourself, you'll find someone who will be happy with you as you are. Because I have heard from alot of people that guys like women who are confident and accepting of themselves. If you want to lose weight then do it because you just want to. Good Luck!
Seriously? If the guy is in his 20s, I'd say 5 women in 2 years is extremely low. I'd say most decent looking guys are more in the 18-24 women in 2 years category.
And as far as finding overweight women attractive...No way. Being fat portrays a person as lazy, uneducated, undisciplined and having no feeling of self worth. NONE of those are attractive attributes, even beyond the physical aspect.