Ughh....where to start. Keeping it simple, I'm active on a few other forums....one of them is sorta a car club that operates near my home, so it's not entirely like a distant thing, although there are forum members who don't live around here. It's a mix.
Getting right to it, I'm getting attacked by a couple of jerks who are really talented at keyboard warfare. It's embarassing and I'm afraid some of my friends and people I know might believe some of their accusations & insults....it feels a bit like they're bringing me down in the eyes of others.
I've been told to ignore it, blow it off, not to respond to it....but I just can't seem to work that out in my head. I hate to admit it, but it's ruining my head a bit....I'm spending time in my day upset, annoyed, thinking about it, obsessing about it, re-running it, etc. I really wish I could just turn it off....but I guess I just don't work that way.
I'm not sure who these guys are and it may just be one guy. There's one person in particular (a trust-fund baby who was my friend who I had a bad falling-out with) who I think it fueling it behind the scenes...he thrives on this sort of thing and he knows it bothers me, I think he's goating a couple tools into giving me a hard time. I've got to say, these guys are pretty talented....they've making all sorts of psychologically provoking comments and sorta getting into my head. I'm sure, in real life, they're a couple of losers compensating for their own issues...but still, it bugs me.
I do have friends over there, but most my friends just ignore the bs and leave it alone...or they don't want to step into the firing line. I didn't provoke these guys, they just seem to enjoy victimizing people.
Any suggestions? I'm fairy certain they can't trace me to this forum....if they did, things would go to hell.
So let me ask this....since thier attacks are getting to me, does that mean I'm somehow insecure in some manner that I can't blow it off???? I just can't understand why some people blow it off and others can't. I just don't like being made a fool of in front of people I know...I'm compelled to respond and they seem to thrive on it. Any thoughts or suggestions?
Getting right to it, I'm getting attacked by a couple of jerks who are really talented at keyboard warfare. It's embarassing and I'm afraid some of my friends and people I know might believe some of their accusations & insults....it feels a bit like they're bringing me down in the eyes of others.
I've been told to ignore it, blow it off, not to respond to it....but I just can't seem to work that out in my head. I hate to admit it, but it's ruining my head a bit....I'm spending time in my day upset, annoyed, thinking about it, obsessing about it, re-running it, etc. I really wish I could just turn it off....but I guess I just don't work that way.
I'm not sure who these guys are and it may just be one guy. There's one person in particular (a trust-fund baby who was my friend who I had a bad falling-out with) who I think it fueling it behind the scenes...he thrives on this sort of thing and he knows it bothers me, I think he's goating a couple tools into giving me a hard time. I've got to say, these guys are pretty talented....they've making all sorts of psychologically provoking comments and sorta getting into my head. I'm sure, in real life, they're a couple of losers compensating for their own issues...but still, it bugs me.
I do have friends over there, but most my friends just ignore the bs and leave it alone...or they don't want to step into the firing line. I didn't provoke these guys, they just seem to enjoy victimizing people.
Any suggestions? I'm fairy certain they can't trace me to this forum....if they did, things would go to hell.
So let me ask this....since thier attacks are getting to me, does that mean I'm somehow insecure in some manner that I can't blow it off???? I just can't understand why some people blow it off and others can't. I just don't like being made a fool of in front of people I know...I'm compelled to respond and they seem to thrive on it. Any thoughts or suggestions?