weight loss scared

[angelzbabe]

I need to lose weight. i weigh 184 and i'm only 5'4''. i think losing about 40-45 pounds will help. i know my breasts will decrease a little but i was wondering how much? they were the only good thing about the weight gain. im at a 38D rite now. i don't want to go real flat. that would make the whole dieting and exercising all depressing to me and ill probably hate myself even more for losing them. vain i know but they're the only part of my body that im satisfied with. so any ideas how much of them ill lose?

ive always had bigger breasts and thats been my only i guess comfort with myself. eating disorder and my family doesnt help with their nagging about my current weight gain. my dads side of the family is prone to obesity and it sucks. but im also the only young girl on both sides with bigger breasts. so idk..not sure how to view it all...ive been big busted for nearly 10 years now and im not sure if im ready to part with them..and it was only when i went to college 2 yrs ago that i gained so much weight...damn cafeteria food with not so good choices...god i sound so vain..

 

[Phate89]

Your breasts might or might not get smaller, most likely they will get a little smaller but not that much anyway.

I had a girlfriend who lost alot of weight, and her breasts still stayed the same size...so she now has a average body with nice sized chest.

And personally, when breasts are too big and flabby, its not attractive for me anyway.

 

[sexanoe]

honestly i think many would prefer a fit girl with smaller breasts than an overweight one with bigger ones
dont sweat it

 

[deskilla]

omg i thought you were a guy when i started reading this and "he" said "he" had 38Ds then i relized you were a girl.

 

[Chillen]

I need to lose weight. i weigh 184 and i'm only 5'4''. i think losing about 40-45 pounds will help. ..

First step is realizing one's will to lose weight. Now, take the DESIRE and let the forum assist the SISTA in her goal.............

i know my breasts will decrease a little but i was wondering how much? they were the only good thing about the weight gain. im at a 38D rite now. i don't want to go real flat. that would make the whole dieting and exercising all depressing to me and ill probably hate myself even more for losing them. vain i know but they're the only part of my body that im satisfied with. so any ideas how much of them ill lose? ..

Im male so, I cant answer this question regarding the--hmm...-ya know, but I think you should focus on just losing the weight at a healthy rate and you will do great, and create your figure eight!

ive always had bigger breasts and thats been my only i guess comfort with myself. eating disorder and my family doesnt help with their nagging about my current weight gain. my dads side of the family is prone to obesity and it sucks. but im also the only young girl on both sides with bigger breasts. so idk..not sure how to view it all...ive been big busted for nearly 10 years now and im not sure if im ready to part with them..and it was only when i went to college 2 yrs ago that i gained so much weight...damn cafeteria food with not so good choices...god i sound so vain..

We are all vain in varying degrees, and likewise are not perfect, and have to learn to deal with our self imperfections. In addtion, young lady, we have to deal with certin negatives in life, and try not to let them draw us down like a magnet drawn to a piece of steel--so we can become the reel fricken deal.

In what I call passive-resistive, I believe one has to be aware of whats going on, and be passively-resistive both internally and externally to bring about one step or one peice in the over all puzzle.

If the family is bothering you, say something to them and in part your feelings on what you have chosen to do about it--if the response is positive then there may not be any more tweaks to do, and may become a support stimulant.

If its negative and the future tends to show its the same as before, then you have to be internally passive resistive, and become stronger than this environment, and set a course path to bring in self support that you need (everyone is different in this area of need).

This can come from outside sources or from inside sources (yourself) once you learn the outside sources. And, one of the outside sources to assist this inside source, is this forum:

HI my name is Chillen, and I am your friend. I understand how you feel, and know this journey (from real practical experience), and I extend my helping hand to you, young lady..................

 

[Chillen]

Bump: Angelz. Im waiting for your reply just to let you know......COOK IT!