When I was in my early teens I mowed yards (more like landscaped) for money sometimes ten a week and due to this fact I was in pretty damn good shape. Now I'm 21 and I don't mow ten yards a week so I need something to take the place of that as far as strength goes. I am in no way concerned about looks, in fact I don't want big bulky muscles, strength is my primary concern. I have a gym membership but I find myself rarely going more than once a week for the simple fact that A. It takes about two hours to do the routine that was recomended to me by a marine friend of mine. and B. I really CAN'T workout for about a week because I am so damn sore. Now I do have a set of dumbells at home and I keep them right beside my easy chair and when I'm not sore I do pick them up and do a few sets just about everynight, but its not enough. So heres what I am asking basically. If such a thing is possible, a once or twice a week general upper body routine. Something that is not for people who wish to rip huge muscles, but still be fairly strong and...something that will not leave me sore for a week afterwards. Preferably I would like to purchase a bench and ditch the membership altogether. Upper body is my primary focus since my legs are in damn good shape because I have a double flight of stairs at work that I run (literally) up and down all day going between my office and dashing to arrest shoplifters. So upper body focus, moderate workout that can preferably be done at home and not leave me in pain. Does it exist?