Sparrow,
I just went through your diary for the last few days and here were somethings you might want to consider--
A few days ago you mentioned that your muscles were popping, that you liked the way you were looking in your bikini and that your abs were starting to show. Don't take this the wrong way, it is a question sent out with much compassion and understanding, could you just be having a bad body image day? I know I have fought these during some periods of my life some worse than others. Sometimes I see progress, other times I am completely blinded to it.
If this is not the cases, there are a few other things I noticed. You eat a lot of soy products, could your body have built up an intolerance to it? You mentioned cheat meals, sometimes a cheat meal can set me back a few days, not so much because the binge continues, but simply because the inflammation lingers in my body for a few days. You also have eluded to tasting the kids foods which can throw off your insulin and/or contribute to inflammation. And overtraining, which you also mentioned can cause the body to hold on to extra water sometimes.
Just some observations!
Sandy