Hello, Everyone i'm new here. Are cravings controlling your eating habits?

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Change What You Crave By Changing How You Think: The 5 Step Mental Method

If I were to ask you which foods temp you, most likely they wouldn’t be ones that are very healthy. I bet they would be ice cream, potato chips, pizza, or something along those lines. In fact, in your mind right now as you’re reading, you are probably thinking about a food that isn’t healthy. Well, aren’t you? Stop for a moment and think about it……………….. The point I’m going to make in this article is that you can change what you crave by changing how you think.

Every new client that comes to my office for weight-loss has a “craving problem.” But I don’t see it as a problem at all. I see it as a solution. Cravings are over-rated. They are hodge-podge and we don’t have to be controlled by them. We don’t have to feel temped by ice cream, cookies or 20-ounce prime ribs. Instead, we can be tempted by watermelon, pineapple, oranges or apples; foods like that. Think that sounds crazy? Well it isn’t and you’ll see why.

When I first sit down and talk with a client about their eating habits, I gather everything I need to know about exactly what they eat and how they eat. The culprit to their weight problem always boils down to snacking, picking, eating foods that are unhealthy or just plain over-eating. Then I’ll ask them what fruits and vegetables they like. I’m yet to come across someone who hates fruit or hates every vegetable under the sun. Finally I’ll ask them how often they eat fruits or vegetables and it’s always a lot less often than the unhealthy stuff.

After I’ve gathered my arsenal of information, we do our thing. I’ll have my clients lay back in my recliner and close their eyes. I’ll direct their mind to a peaceful place, and within minutes they’ll be relaxed like never before. Then I start talking about their favorite fruits and vegetables. I’ll ask them to imagine taking a bite of their favorite juicy, ripe fruit and to feel the juices tickling their taste buds. I’ll say to their mind, “from now on anytime you have a craving for food, you will think of a juicy, ripe piece of fruit. And bingo!!! Next thing you know these are exactly the kinds of foods they start desiring. Why? Because anytime you close your eyes and bring yourself to a calm, relaxed place, your subconscious mind emerges, and it is this part of the mind that controls what you crave. Change your thoughts and you’ll change what you crave. Simple.

Let’s look at this from another perspective. Let’s say pineapple is your favorite fruit. Now, if you were sitting with me right now and I gave you a juicy chunk of it, you would enjoy it thoroughly. And you’d want more, right? Of course. Now, let’s say I reached into my refrigerator, whipped-out a piece of chocolate cake and said, “choose one.” Most likely you would opt for the pineapple because you just had a teaser-piece, which would make your mind want more. The fact of the matter is this: you enjoy your favorite fruits just as much as you enjoy your favorite junk foods, you just believe otherwise.

Again, cravings are over-rated. The mere mention of that devilish word always seems to conjures-up images of high calorie, high fat foods only because these are the foods you are most exposed to in our media driven world. Your subconscious gets accustomed to this and just doesn’t know any better. Change your minds images and you’ll change your cravings. Here’s a quick 5 minute mental exercise you can begin doing now to help you start changing the way you crave food.

Step 1: Find a comfortable, quiet place where there are no distractions. Begin breathing deeply until you are quite relaxed. Next, count backwards from 10-1, slowly. With each count, imagine that your mind is drifting deeper and deeper.

Step 2: After you have finished counting, imagine that you are relaxing by yourself in your favorite place. A secluded beach or a log in the woods will do the trick. Imagine yourself feeling so very relaxed and peaceful.

Step 3: Next, imagine a basket full of your favorite fresh picked fruit sitting right next to you. See it clearly in your mind, the color, the feel, everything about that fruit. Imagine taking a bite of that juicy fruit and enjoying it like never before.

Step 4: Repeat the following suggestion to yourself 10 times: “From now on, anytime I think of eating, I immediately feel a craving for fruit.”

Step 5: Count from 1 to 5, slowly, and when you reach 5 open your eyes.
 
for hundreds of thousands of years fruit was only available for a month or so every year.
history can teach us a lesson ... if we listen.
 
I don't binge on fruit the way I do chocolate but that's mostly because I'm allergic to most kinds of fruit and the rest is very seasonal, very expensive, or both. I do crave it.
 
i have developed a slight ambivalence toward the freeze dryer. it's so nice to have all sorts of fruit on hand and i usually only eat a few pieces at a time. i really have to watch it, though. if i don't take some out and put the jar away, a few pieces sometimes turns into too many and ... for example... it is quite easy to down 2-3 whole apples (equivalent, minus all the water, but all the calories/ sugar).
 
THAnk YOPu for this. I WIll try it after I take the medicine to sleep that makes me crave things. I am going through perimenopause and I only eat after I take my bedtime medicine for sleep it is mirtazapine everyone gains weight on it. I crave carbs mostly and i need to buy chromium picolinate to help. I Have a yeast imbalance i am guessing. BUt i want to try your method.
 
fruit juice is fine as long as you only eat it along with it;s original container...

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a glass of OJ contains all the sugar of up to half a dozen oranges or more without any of the fiber.
fiber in fruit buffers the effect of an otherwise huge boost in blood sugar.
 
fruit juice is fine as long as you only eat it along with it;s original container...

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a glass of OJ contains all the sugar of up to half a dozen oranges or more without any of the fiber.
fiber in fruit buffers the effect of an otherwise huge boost in blood sugar.

THat is so cute. I know. It is an addiction. I guess I will be accountable and say that I have not been active at all and have needed to rest all day-I work on line and have been eating 2 bags of gnocchi a day and a quart of orange juice and a burger. SO when I write that out it appears anyone would gian weight form my diet. LOL! I am going to utilize the journal section. ANd thank YOu. I bought my favourite fruit today-raspberries.<3
 
i have developed a slight ambivalence toward the freeze dryer. it's so nice to have all sorts of fruit on hand and i usually only eat a few pieces at a time. i really have to watch it, though. if i don't take some out and put the jar away, a few pieces sometimes turns into too many and ... for example... it is quite easy to down 2-3 whole apples (equivalent, minus all the water, but all the calories/ sugar).
Dude, I think my diet would be vastly improved if I binged on Apples instead of Gnocchi. I would be a toothpick.
 
... I bought my favourite fruit today-raspberries.<3
berries are my favorite fruit. i don't have a lot of facts on this, but in general, the skin of most fruit is where most of the micro-nutrients reside. when i buy apples, i look for the smallest ones for two reasons. first it seems like the smaller ones are usually the ones on sale, and secondarily, the smaller the fruit, the larger the skin to pulp ratio. in the case of berries, this is amplified. if you look at it closely, each raspberry is like eating a few dozen little tiny bits of fruit.
 
BTW the only reason I did not eat my bread is because it got moldy. :D I take something to sleep. It is called mirtazapine and it makes everyone gain weight. I take a very low dose because it is for sleep not depression but it is the lower doses that cause weight gain. Oh well. It is fun talking to you. I can get a lot of great wisdom form you it seems.
 
hey just an update-
So after I read the section about what I am eating i have to laugh. I have lost six lbs in six days just by not eating what I have been eating. So here is what I was eating and I only blew up to 160 lbs . I told my friend and she said if she did not move all day-which i didn;t for nine months as I had no energy-she would be 250lbs.
So here was my diet: 2 bags of gnocchi pasta per day, a burger-big and 1 to 2 bars of dark chocolate on a lot of bread. To wash it down 1.5-2 liters of water and a liter of juice per day either oj or rapsberry/apple smoothie.
]Now I have eliminated the gnocchi but did not sacrifice taste I have been eating great chicek and rice dishes and stuffed grape leaves and peppers and my digestion is awesome and I have eliminated the juice i still eat 1.2 a bar of dark chocolate and i lost six lbs in six days!!! I guess my metabolism did not change. I just needed less food becasue i was not sso active. I have not pushed myself at all walking gently and playing not doing laps in the pool-relaxing and having fun. My only goal is to keep eating healthfully because i feel so much more energized eating a salad and more veggies and my raspberries of course. I feel so much better. I think the crbohydrates were a comfort food but all they did was make me bloated. I am using your meditation and I crave rapsberries and cut dowen on my bread I think I was eating half a loaf a day and now i am only eating a few pieces. update. fyi.
 
hey just an update-
So after I read the section about what I am eating i have to laugh. I have lost six lbs in six days just by not eating what I have been eating. So here is what I was eating and I only blew up to 160 lbs . I told my friend and she said if she did not move all day-which i didn;t for nine months as I had no energy-she would be 250lbs.
So here was my diet: 2 bags of gnocchi pasta per day, a burger-big and 1 to 2 bars of dark chocolate on a lot of bread. To wash it down 1.5-2 liters of water and a liter of juice per day either oj or rapsberry/apple smoothie.
]Now I have eliminated the gnocchi but did not sacrifice taste I have been eating great chicek and rice dishes and stuffed grape leaves and peppers and my digestion is awesome and I have eliminated the juice i still eat 1.2 a bar of dark chocolate and i lost six lbs in six days!!! I guess my metabolism did not change. I just needed less food becasue i was not sso active. I have not pushed myself at all walking gently and playing not doing laps in the pool-relaxing and having fun. My only goal is to keep eating healthfully because i feel so much more energized eating a salad and more veggies and my raspberries of course. I feel so much better. I think the crbohydrates were a comfort food but all they did was make me bloated. I am using your meditation and I crave rapsberries and cut dowen on my bread I think I was eating half a loaf a day and now i am only eating a few pieces. update. fyi.
*1/2 a bar of dark chocolate with my raspeberries and a bit of bread to sweeten it not 1.2 6 lns in six days and just by changing my diet . :DDD
 
No thanks I don't need people commenting. I am doing well on my own.
 
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