Anyone one else ever feel like putting off weight loss?

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Butterfly88

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I keep saying to myself things like "I'll have some pumpkin bread now and start losing weight tomorrow" and "my goal is to exercise 4 times this week, but I'm not going to today". Anyone else get like this? I want to lose weight now but I feel stuck.
 
Yes every day i say i will getvon track tomorrow but it never happens . but i keep trying


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Hi Butterfly88, totally get you on this. The hardest thing about diets and exercise isn't actually doing them, it's making the decision to actually do them. Exercise and diet is 90% mental and only 10% actually doing it. But getting over that first hurdle of actually making the decision and then maintaining that motivation is the hardest thing in the world!

The trouble is we try and make that decision when we have little willpower to do so. For example, today we say that we are going to start tomorrow, and we really mean it. We want to lose weight, we want to get fit and look great. We really want to. But then tomorrow comes and we're a bit stressed out, tired and quite frankly we're going to get more pleasure from eating cake than exercising!

But there's some really simple tactics you can try out to get past this. One thing I've learned (and honestly, give this a go!) is to make the decision when your willpower is high the day before, so all you have to do the following day is just act. What I mean by this is that if you want to eat a healthy lunch tomorrow, then make it the night before, stick it in the fridge. So when you come to eat lunch tomorrow and you haven't got the willpower to make something healthy, you don't have to, you already did it! Now, you've just got to take action and eat it.

If you want to go out for a run in the morning or do a workout, then lay out your workout clothes and trainers before you go to bed. You've effectively made the decision there and then so in the morning all you have to do is put on the clothes you've already laid out and exercise. You already did 90% of the work the night before.

One last one, I regularly snack at work, buying chocolates from the vending machines. So I stopped taking change with me to work and stuck an apple in my bag instead. I ate the apple and still wanted chocolate but now I didn't have any change to get chocolate. I made that decision before I went to work not to eat chocolate by removing my ability to buy it.

Little things like this can go a long way. We shouldn't worry about completely changing our lifestyle from day one, but little tweaks like this can add up. Once we've made one and stuck to one small tweak then we can make another and then another. And they all stack up eventually!

I hope this helps and I would love to know how you get on!
 
I was stuck in the same position as you, always promising I'll make a better effort tomorrow and excusing my poor habits today. So I quit living for tomorrow, and started living for today. Want to go for a jog? Go NOW. Want to eat healthier? Do it TODAY. No more excuses, no more empty promises - if you want to make a change, do it now. Remove the junk from the fridge/cupboards, and replace with delicious fruits, veggies and yummy healthy foods :D
 
You're right, I do need to live for today. I'll do my best and do that. Not too much junk food in the house, but need to buy more apples and veggies.
 
I get lazy as well but i got this work out video thats more like a dance routine that i do for 15mins a day! So when i think about it 15mins isnt a lot. I pair it with my favorite shake in the morning to help lose weight and has healthy antioxidants to energize my body. I found amazing results with it and i only told myself... what is 15mins of my day?

I try to remember the dance routine so i can do 15mins to it while watching my favorite tv shows
 
I haven't started I just lack the motivation but you have already started you should keep at it

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Have a carrot instead of pumpkin bread. Carrots used to kill my cravings

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I joined this site a while ago but only got serious about weight loss recently. I will keep it up. Good to know about the carrot thing. Won't make anymore pumpkin bread, leftover from the holidays.
 
I have been like that alot.I would say ok its ok today I will do it tomorrow.I am also bad about sticking to it for a couple of days and then trying to say oh I will just start agAin in a few days.That is one of the reasons I have joined here to help keep myself on track knowing that I can't do that if I am sharing here.So I think many of us if not all of us have been there at least once if not more than a few times. Best wishes towards you being able to carry on with your journey.
 
Oh I've got 103849 ways/excuses for putting off weight loss.
"it's just water weight"
"it's the holidays"
"if I gained weight this fast, I can lose it this fast...later"
"I've been a little constipated lately, it must be that..."
"my clothe still fit, so it can't be that much..."

I can go on and on. But I guess fortunately ish, I'm super obsessed with skincare (skincare blogger of 2+ yrs now) and am super diligent about that. One thing I realized recently is that I may be able to lose weight even if I'm older, my skin won't be as forgiving. I've already put it off for 5 years, the longer I put it off, the more likely I will get wrinkles, saggy skin and jiggly chin after weight loss, even if I exercise and eat healthy. That kind of motivates me, as well as switching up my workout and music occasionally. I still lose motivation way too frequently, thus I joined this forum, lol.
 
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